In contrast, sugaring shows a severe power imbalance between the sugar daddy and the sugar baby, where the women are forced to play a more subservient role to men. Alice Holland, Director of Health and Wellness Services at Swarthmore College and certified sexuality educator, say, “It could be possibly be seen as a power dynamic if someone feels that someone else has the power over them, [...] and that could be financial control, or emotional control [...] but I can’t say if it’s for all relationships.” The man decides the location, what you’re eating, and in some cases, what you’re wearing. One example of the effect of the power dynamic between a sugar baby and sugar daddy was shown in a documentary titled, Daddies Date Babies, that followed …show more content…
By finding a sugar daddy they are taking their lives into their own hands and directing their future. For some, they even go as far to call themselves ‘sugar cunts’ and their clients ‘sugar dicks,’ in order to break away from the dynamic that sugar baby and sugar daddy imply. However, the terminology still suggest objectification, since they’re reduce to their genital. The terminology only allows sugar babies to have a false sense of power in severe power imbalance shifted towards men. Even the typical sugar baby experience to be held as on the man’s arms and to be paraded around like a trophy shows how objectifying a sugaring relationship can be. But, in some cases, sugaring allows them opportunities they wouldn’t be able to achieve alone like connecting with people in high up position because of their sugar daddy. Miranda, a 22-year-old sugar baby, talks about the benefits that sugaring has had on her career. By being a sugar baby she learned important skills from her sugar daddy like learning how to do an “elevator pitch.” This allows sugar babies to further their career by making connections with people in the right places. For example, when meeting with a sugar daddy named, Darrell, he offered to give his sugar baby either an allowance or give her a job at his company. In cases like these, being a sugar baby can become an empowering experience. Although it’s only empowerment in a set of constraints that typically benefits men rather than