Relationships – older men are looking for life with a partner and real relationship. You may ask yourself why, and/or question yourself, or your judgment as to the factualness of this ideal. When I use the phrase older me, I am speaking of full-grown men, not just old in age, but all grown up! My late grandmother always said life begins at 50, so if you are 53, that means that you are only three years old in life. However, you are not as malleable, and less likely to fit into someone else predetermined life style. Not to say you are not flexible or willing to adjust, just t not so liquid, (as to be poured into a mold) for someone else. Back to older men, they look at where they are in life and where they have been in life and where they …show more content…
I say eyesight because their vision is skewed. Meaning what is perfect to them in reality is far from perfect. Perfect for a teenager is usually what is above the shoulders, a girl with a pretty face and pretty hair and a pretty smile, in the eyes of a teenager is considered perfect; perfect in the eyes of the beholder. Comfort/materialistic search - young people between the ages of twenty and thirty-five, this is not a firm age however the people that I am referring to are those who have not really settled down in life. The relationships that they seek are with people who can fulfill their search for things, materialistic things of comfort that life has to offer them. Expectation search - middle age people, people usually over the age of thirty-five, but under the age of forty-five. Again, these ages are not restrictive to a science and are not firm ages, but for the most part that are firm enough to understand my message. These are people who are in search for a partner and comparing their relationship to their family and friend’s relationship, because their friends are in a committed relationship; and they are worried that their life clock is ticking away, especially the female, wanting or expecting to have