If you have an infant child and are in the process of getting divorced and determining custody arrangements, it is vital that you understand that that custodial time with infants is different than custodial time with older children. In order to establish a bond with your infant child, it is vital that you get a lot of face time with your child. Infants establish connections through frequent face-to-face contact with the adults taking care of them. If you have a positive relationship with the other parent, it is vital that you make a visitation schedule that is based on the developmental needs of your baby. Here are three things to keep in mind while developing your custody and visitation schedule.
#1 Forget About The Every Other Weekend Schedule
The first thing you need to do is through out the idea that an every other weekend
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These types of visitation arrangements for infants often work best if you work with the custodial parent to keep your baby's routine the same. This type of visitation also works well if the other parent is okay with you spending time with the infant at their home or at the infant's childcare. This is a great alternative to overnight visits for infant children, and work best when both parents respect each other and are able to spend time with each other.
The court system wants to do what is in the best interest in your child, and generally recognizes that infants bond different than older children. Most courts recognize that infants need lots of physical contact in order to bond and become familiar with adults. They recognize that the spaced out contact that is possible as your child ages does not allow a parent-child bond to form and can be detrimental to your overall relationship with your child when they are an infant.
#3 Revise Your Visitation Schedule As Your Child