1. One insight that I gained from this expansion is DeYoung’s claim that people become slothful as a result of required relationship efforts over a lifetime. This idea was particularly insightful because the ongoing effort required for relationship growth causes my personal relationships to seem burdensome at times. Relationships unquestionably demand sacrifice and daily effort for the relationship bond to be sustained, which the slothful individual resists.
That's what creates tension since one bond between a parent was lost, it was harder to have such a great connection when there’s one
He himself was lost. He didn't know what to do or how to react. All he knew was now he had to step up and become the next man of the
An example would be for a month, my mother decided to go to China for her own enjoyment. Since she was the only person who normally cooked and cleaned the house, when she left, her responsibilities all came crashing down onto my brother and I. On school days, I discovered that I could not keep up with balancing homework and cooking every day. Another discovery I made is that my brother was not as helpful as he could have been either. There were times when I felt completely fed up with him; especially when it came to making the lunches because he would always wake up late despite me telling him to wake up earlier to help.
Three major issues in this book will also be specified. This book begins by explaining and defining codependency. According to the author the individuals who are codependent tend to be too preoccupied with other persons actions and lives.
The essence of this relationship is expressed through the internal conflict, both within
In “ The glass Castle” by Jeannette Walls, Jeannette was the main support in the Walls home. Growing up in a household where her father was an alcoholic and a childish mother, she finds a way to leave the nest with her siblings and become a successful adult. Initially, Jeannette was soft spoken and mature for her age, however over the course the course of the novel she spoke her mind and became successful and independent. In the beginning of the book, Jeannette was well behaved and acted mature for a three year old.
However, it’s not as dynamic, relationships aren’t based on trust or mutual likings, but are based on Party survival. It’s prevalent in the family relationship, which is shown through the Parsons’s. “With those children, he thought, that wretched woman must lead a life of terror”, here it’s depicted that family life is difficult, no one should be trust and children are feared (24). With no trust, a strain is caused by a The Party’s influence which breaks up families. The influence mostly effects children, it gives power to children, which causes them to abuse it and assert it on their own family.
(Bradbury 108). Her husband wasn’t important, and her family was clearly everything to her. (SIP-B) Their temporal perspectives cause them to be void of empathy towards others, as well as having any memory
Relationships in which there is not mutual respect are destined to fail. Relationships in which one person’s autonomy is not valued are destructive. For example, when Dana travels back to the Antebellum South for the fourth time, she finds Rufus being beaten by a man as a woman watches from a distance, wearing a torn dress. Dana learns that the woman is Alice, and the man beating Rufus is Isaac, Alice’s husband. She convinces them to leave, and when nursing Rufus back to consciousness, learns that Rufus was beaten because he tried to rape Alice after she refused to marry him.
This is because they grew up in Psychic conflicts, resulting from severe bereavement, morning, guilt feelings and anxiety, which often resulted in overprotection and over expectation. The study of trans generational transmission
1) Expectancy violations theory is communication theory in which the one communicator violates the interpersonal expectations of another communicator. The violation can either be positive or negative. A positive violation increases the attractiveness and credibility of the communicator who is doing the violation. Whereas a negative violation causes the communicator to want to respond or behave in a more socially accepted manner. In the scene that Rachel and Dev pay Grandma Carol a visit, Dev tells Grandma Carol that he expected her to be racist.
That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change. (Hanh
Ego in Relationship to the Dark Triad Decision making; the process of evaluating positives, negatives, and alternatives before selecting an option. To make impactful decisions, one must be able to forecast and weigh all outcomes intelligently, then make the best decision for the situation at hand. However, there is an obstacle, the ego. As defined by Sigmund Freud, ego, is the part of the mind that mediates between the conscious and unconscious, distinguishes between reality, and contains ideas about personal identity. It has something of a metaphysical and personal importance that is crucial to decision making and critical thinking.
Lack of emotion, commitment, perseverance. c- Let someone else take care of problems, don’t partner up with anyone, don’t make any decision. 2- According to Sheryl Sandberg, a-
