Throughout our lives we tend to say "It is okay I Forgive you," but what is the true meaning behind it. Everyone has their own way of forgiving someone and what they think they need forgiveness for. As humans, none of us are perfect so what exactly do we take in to account when we forgive. To me when I think of forgiveness I believe it mean being able to not hold a person accountable for what they have done to hurt you. The two things we have to concentrate here on are holding someone accountable and what it is that hurts you.
When we think about holding someone accountable for what they have done some astray to revenge and some go off to think about just forgetting what they have done. But which option is the correct one? If one goes off to thinking that revenge is the proper way of treating the situation essentially no one gets forgiven because both parties are doing wrong to one another. When referring to holding someone accountable it is said in such way that we know they done something unjustifiable to us.
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In the book 1 chapter 9 of, The Confessions of St. Augustine, book he talks about as a child he was beaten whenever he misbehaved and how he thought that in order to be good he must always obey his teachers. He recalls how he would pray to him to help him in his times of need and how he felt like he really did not deserve such punishments from what he would do.St. Augustine could have gone back and taken some type of revenge on his teachers since he believed that the adults were just taking pleasure at his misery and not caring for him