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Layers Of Masculinity: Societal Expectations And Family Dynamics

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Marjory Nicolle Duque
Prof. Helen Lee
Masculinity, Modernity, and Men
June 17, 2023
Layers of Masculinity: Societal Expectations and Family Dynamics
Masculinity, as the societal construct that encompasses the qualities, behaviors, and roles expected of men, is constantly changing over time, and its definition continues to be a never-ending discussion. However, despite the fluidity of masculinity, societies persistently impose expectations on men to conform to certain norms and assimilate into predefined gender roles. Nevertheless, there emerges a profound tension between societal expectations and the desires of individuals who may reject or challenge traditional notions of masculinity. This defiance can lead to a disruption of social stability, …show more content…

The readings "Taming Tiger Dads" and "Korea's Vietnam" shed light on the complex interplay between family dynamics and societal expectations. In South Korea, the influence of militarized modernity and the legacy of the Vietnam War has had a profound impact on family dynamics and the construction of masculinity. As previously stated, Ryu explores how the portrayal of soldiers as heroes and self-sacrificing men. This perception influenced family dynamics, where men were expected to embody these masculine ideals within their roles as fathers and husbands. Moreover, Allen Kim's "Taming Tiger Dads" discusses South Korea's Father School, which emerged as a response to the changing dynamics of fatherhood and gender roles. The Father School sought to challenge traditional gender norms and encourage men to take on a more involved and nurturing role within the family. This change in family dynamics was done to redefine the expectations of fathers and promote a different and open division of household …show more content…

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