Woodrow Wilson once said, “No man has ever risen to the stature of spiritual manhood until he has found that it is finer to serve somebody else than it is to serve himself.” This offers a powerful insight into what it means to be a truly strong and virtuous man. Traditional virile qualities are often recognized as strength, courage, assertiveness, and independence; however, Jesmyn Ward’s novel Salvage the Bones challenges the notion of masculinity defined by these qualities. Through the looming threat of Hurricane Katrina and the resilience of the Bastite family, Ward creatively conveys the complexities and challenges of fulfilling traditional gender roles in a world that is often brutal and unforgiving. By analyzing the actions and behaviors …show more content…
As a part of his distinct personality, Big Henry’s relationships with other characters in the story, particularly friends and family, are shaped by his gentle and empathetic nature. Esch’s early childhood memories reveal that she always felt a sense of comfort and security when Big Henry was around, and he often acted as a protector and caregiver to her and her siblings. She recalls, “When we were little, Big Henry used to let me ride on his back in the deep part of the pit, the part that was lined with oyster shells. He used to carry me so my feet wouldn’t get cut, even though his feet were bare as mine. They never bled. He hasn’t touched me since then” (27). Big Henry’s lack of bleeding when carrying Esch on his back symbolizes his strength, endurance, and selflessness; the three qualities that make up a truly honorable man. By carrying Esch and protecting her feet from being cut, he demonstrates his love for her despite the physical discomfort or pain he may have been experiencing himself. His lack of bleeding also represents his ability to endure hardship and adversity without complaining or seeking attention for himself, thus exemplifying a traditional notion of manhood that emphasizes stoicism, resilience, and self-reliance. It serves as a metaphor for ways in which men are often expected to suppress their emotions and exhibit a tough exterior, even in the face of difficult circumstances. The last line, “He hasn’t touched me since then”, demonstrates Big Henry’s respectful fondness for Esch. While the other boys look to Esch as a source of pleasure, he makes sure she feels safe and appreciated. Additionally, his sense of obligation is not limited to people he knows or loves, but to anyone who is in need. As Esch, Skeetah, and Big