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Masculinity In My Father's Husbands

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I think this young newly wed's description of her husbands hand reveals his masculinity using animal like comparison. While lying next to each other her husbands arm is under her back while he is sleeping and his hand is beside her. She is awake and I think she really is taking a good look at he husband masculinity by observing his large hand that is "bigger than her whole head". As light begins to reflect off the curtains it shines on his hand reveals the contour of his skin, knuckles, and the veins engorged by her body weight. As she is looking at her husbands large hand she seeing the red hairs on his knuckles and the pink of his nails that did not seem to go with his masculint hand. While he is sleeping his hand is moving around making
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