Essay On Misconception Of Love

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or unfeigned? And if love contains falsities, could it still be considered Wagas? For instance, let me debunk to you a number of love misconceptions in the said book.
One is, Leave Love to Fate. This is where the topic of Soulmate, or in the book, which is mentioned a couple of times, Prince Charming, comes in. Leaving everything to fate is not always the case to find love. Actually, love doesn’t find you first; you find love. It takes effort. If you just wait to find the right one for you, you might be waiting for no one. And the days will pass by, and it’s going to be too late for you to realize that it’s not just the days that passed you by, but the right one too. And you were just there all the time waiting and not pouncing every opportunity that came your way, believing that the right one will just magically stop and reveal his or herself to you. Well, that’s not necessary the case. …show more content…

The danger in that is when you find that soul mate, and you’re never going to let that person out of your sight. That’s another misconception of love. The world is full of potential soul mates, and the choice of whom we are going to love depends on us. Let me cite some examples in some articles in the book.
In the story Leave Zach Alone by Javierose Ramirez, Lisa committed an error of reasoning called Fear of Regret. Lisa believes that her Prince Charming is Zach, and it took her a long time to finally admit to herself, that she couldn’t force Zach to be her ever-after. Thinking that Zach is the only one for her, she just couldn’t let go of him, because she’ll might regret it in the end. She’s afraid that she won’t find another person who is better than Zach, so she’ll settle for less than she