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Ordinary People Character Analysis

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Ordinary People Term Essay After reading the book; Ordinary People and learning about all of the characters, I’d say I most closely resemble Conrad Jarrett. Conrad has experienced a lot and has faded relationships with people he used to have close relationships with. He lost his brother, tried to commit suicide, he has also been in and out of hospitals. A couple of these ways are similar to me. For example, in chapter 13, Conrad gets in a fight with his mom. Her name is Beth. Basically, he got in a fight with her because he felt like she didn’t care about stuff he does. It ends with a lot of yelling. In the past, I have gotten in fights with my mom which had a lot of yelling but it was over stupid stuff. I guess it relates in a way though. Another …show more content…

Conrad gets in a fight with Kevin Stillman. Conrad obviously won the fight but later on that evening, after he gets dinner he starts feeling bad over what he had done. He thinks to himself “Why are you always messing up?” “I didn’t mean to” “I didn’t mean to doesn’t mean anything.”. I haven’t been in a fight like that with someone but in past relationships I’ve been in, if there was a fight and it got bad I’d say a lot of stuff I didn’t mean and the girl would say stuff back but after it ended and we weren’t talking I’d feel bad about the stuff I said and regret saying it and it seemed like it always happened. Thinking back, Conrad isn’t the only character from the novel that I can relate to. The other character I can relate to is Beth, Conrad’s mother. She is really caring and try’s to have good relationships with everyone. She is super laid back too. She has experienced a lot in her past and just wants

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