Passive-Aggressive Communication Style In our everyday lives, we are constantly interacting and engaging in conversations with others in our own unique style. Communication styles vary among individuals and it is essential that one is able to discern their own communication style, in order for the development of effective and efficient communication skills. Out of the several communication style, passive-aggressive style is deemed the most destructive and harmful style out of all. I agree wholeheartedly that this form of communication is extremely poisonous and malicious, however, it is ironic that this style is frequently observed in a workplace or a school setting. I feel that by engaging in this communication style, it is an act of cowardice …show more content…
I feel that those who adopt the passive communication style are constantly deluded by a victim mentality, as they often believe that they are the only ones suffering and are unable to stand up for themselves due to their lack of confidence and self-esteem. Although I feel that it is the weakest communication style, I feel a sense of pity, as I understand that many of us are struggling with self-esteem, self-image issues and are having difficulties with confidence. Yet, I feel that this form of communication style is the result of teachers, parents or any adults in our lives. Since we were young, we were often educated on the importance of being obedient, meek, compliant and occasionally, verbal or non-verbal rewards would be given for our submissive behaviour. Sometimes when we voice out our opinions, instead of receiving praise or understanding from others, we would be berated for having such thoughts or being defiant. Hence, it is not necessary that quiet people would automatically adopt a passive communication style, I feel that it is dependent on the kind of environment one is being placed in which contributes greatly to how they interact and engage with others. Although selfless actions and complying to others are seen as a positive behaviour, however, it is extremely crucial to identify the situation an individual is dealing with. If the situation is something as minuscule as dinner plans, being compliant is acceptable. However, when it comes to group discussions or in a workplace and an individual has a burning desire to express their thoughts and opinions but resort to being compliant, I feel that it is extremely