Pastoral Thanatology

This essay will identify and describe the role of the writer as a practitioner of pastoral thanatology about the challenges faced by and support provided to the individuals and families, congregations and communities, and the policy makers and financial stakeholders. Families faced with EOL decisions leads to stress and depression. As a practitioner of pastoral thanatology, the pastor first evaluates the attitudes of the family as a whole as well as the individual. According to Kubler-Ross, "the majority of the patients know of their impending death whether they have been told or not."(234) The pastor not only attends to the needs of the family, but the practitioner has to consider the patient as an individual and what is best for them. The pastor has to remain a silent partner without compromising and passing judgment. The emotions must be discussed at the time the news of dying expressed because feelings turn to depression if not articulated. EOL affects everyone. Everyone takes the issue personally and lose sight of what is important, and that is the decision of the patient if he/she can grant a decision. The family has to know it is faith that comforts and keeps them as they press through the

At the same time, the EOL choices help the individuals come to terms with themselves and their relationship with God. On the other hand, EOL compels the family to get their business in order. In other words, write a living will, so the family will not have to argue or guess about what the person would desire. As the practitioner, the pastor will listen to see what he/she need to do or say next. The pastor is only a standby for support, prayer, and comfort. Sometimes just the presence of the pastor and prayer is all that is