Perks Of Being A Wallflower Essay

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The Perks of Being a Wallflower Life is just a collection of random events that only make sense at the end. Our tiny little brains cannot comprehend something of this size because it's the only thing we know. We as humans try to create things that try to bring some meaning in this. Things such as Self-Esteem. Self-Esteem is the idea that the way someone thinks of himself affects other things such as how they thrive in life. The book The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a whole book about Self-Esteem. The book is about a high school student’s life and how he thinks about it. We as people want to accepted into a larger group even if it means having a low Self-Esteem because we feel happy. Second having a low Self-Esteem can be good …show more content…

Is it having lots of money, have a family and believe in religion. Maybe life in completely random with no meaning at all and we just are here for no reason. We do not know the answer to that and we will never know. What we do know is how to spend our days on this planet. We try to fill our lives with things that make us happy. We buy nice things and surround ourselves with similar people to enjoy ourselves because we already do despise ourselves or we are afraid that we will one day if we don't fill our lives with pointless things. We are afraid that we will have a low Self-Esteem and not be happy. But that does not matter. People get into a mentality that everything revolves around Self-Esteem. However having a low Self-Esteem isn't all bad because it can lead to self improvement. On the contrary having a high self esteem always does not lead to any change and leads to overconfidence. Being overconfident gives you a false perception of you and the world around you. You have to beat the perception given by others in order for you to be happy. There is a big difference from being happy on the surface and actually being happy. Being happy on the Surface could lead to a low Self-Esteem and on the other hand being happy on the inside leads to a high