Generally speaking, humans cannot be entirely prepared for dying or the death of a close person in their life. Some people say that facing death gives a person both opportunity to grow mentally and the strength to carry on in life; however, it can be too much to handle alone. Help can be needed not only from relatives and peers, but also from the experts. Strong grieving is more than usual, but life must eventually carry on. Death can be both interesting and frightening at the same time because nobody knows what happens afterwards.
Many people go through grief at one point in their life but some are more susceptible to having a difficult time dealing with it. Grieving individuals go through their own processes at their own
Every person alive today is bound to come across death at some point. Death is an inevitable part of life. It’s hard to make peace with the fact that someone you love is gone. Mourning can be a slow and painful process; however, this process differs from person to person. "
Death is the hardest thing to get over especially if it’s your family members. In the course of my life, I’ve had four people passed away. My mother 's dad and my father 's two brothers and sister died. I really didn 't know much about my dad 's sister but, she died from a brain aneurysm. My dad and his siblings always said how pretty and smart their older sister was.
Although graduating early means I will have more work than usual, I am perfectly fine with that. I can put in the work and the dedication to do what I need to do to finish early. By graduating early, I can start college early and get a little head start on things. Graduating early will push me to take risk that I’ve never taken. Entering the adult world will help me realize of what I am capable
When you hear of someone dying, it might not affect you. You may not think that the person means anything at all. Well, think of that person’s family and how they would feel. A little girl sat on a chair, staring out the window.
Coping with your own death is something often talked about but not understood. Morrie gave great insight on mourning and how to handle the hard truth. Morrie viewed life in a way that optimised happiness without fostering ignorance. He said that experiencing grief for a person is a result of your love for them. Love is a beautiful thing and the death of a loved one does not have to be as painful and burdening than expected.
In my brief life, I have overcome a lot of adversity. My mom fled Mexico with her three young children to escape domestic violence. When we came to this country we had only a few personal belongings and the promise of a better future. We came to this country and lived in a small trailer with no toilet other than a bucket, and no shower except for the one that was lent to us from the kindness of a stranger, our new neighbor. As a single parent, my mother had to work day and night to support us.
Death has always been a psychological problem for anyone who has lost loved ones, whether it be family or close friends. Getting over the death is really the hard part of the grieving process. The grieving process can be a long process depending on the relationships between you and the loved one because we never want to come to the conclusion that they are gone forever. Chappel and Mathieu (1997) said that there is no other way to cope with death than the five stages of grief and if one was to ignore the stages, it would just come at a later date and possibly will take more time to heal from a death. Following the death of a loved one, there are five stages of grief that one must experience in order to cope with death and enter tranquility.
Sometimes I do feel divided. I am more comfortable with myself at home than I am at school. My family and my true friends see the real me outside of school. I do not completely change who I am at school; I am just hyper when I am at home. Even though I change my actions, I do not change my beliefs.
Switching Places One day everything was normal, but when I woke up it was completely different. This is because one night I saw a shooting star and wished what every kid would wish for, being out of school. That same night my dad wished to be back in school. That is why I am writing this story. The next day I woke up at 5:30 a.m. and went to the bathroom, got dressed and it didn’t occur to me that I was someone else.
The MyVirtualLife simulation is an interactive way to experience the changes adults go through, and provides a more hands on way of learning then just reading chapters in a book. What I found the most interesting going through the simulation was that I chose outcomes I felt were right and true to myself, even if I knew there was a better option. Similar to real life, in this simulation your decisions have a huge impact on the future of your avatar. The key to maturity is understanding the responsibility of making your own decisions, and that is an important lesson to be learnt from MyVirtualLife. During young adulthood we begin to make many impactful decisions, which can be incredibly stressful for young adults (Feldman, 2015).
When you hear the word death or you hear that someone has died today in the news or on the television I know a lot of people think “Man, I feel sorry for the family that they have to go through that.” or they thank god that it was not them or their family members.” Sadly though people try to push away death and push away the fact that everyone dies at one point in time. This is even truer when they witness their own family member in the hospital with a critical condition that the doctors cannot fix even with modern medicines on the doctor’s side. Another such time would be when a person’s family member is diagnosed with an incurable sickness that is fatal.
Of the various losses and the accompanying pain that people have to deal with in their life time, death is one of them. It is one of the most widely known painful experiences to face in life and seems to be unavoidable. At one stage or another, one has to deal with the loss of a loved one and the accompanying emotional pain which is inflicted by such a loss. The loss can include a loss of a parent, child, husband, wife, relative, friend, colleague and a neighbor.
The personal crisis that I have most recently experienced was one that almost had life changing effects due to the way things happened throughout. My crisis began by me making choices that were not thought through enough to see the consequences that may come from my actions. These actions began the crisis cycle by taking me from my rationalized thoughts to making choices that were not financially and educationally smart. From making those actions I now found myself in phase two of the crisis cycle. The actions I chose to make, started to sink in to me that I may have made the wrong choice, which began to make me upset and then progress into anxiety and stress.
