The book Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys by Dan Kindlon and Michael Thompson (1999) concluded with a beautiful summary and helpful seven points that encourage and exemplify the proper nurturing for our boys. This book has been very eye opening to me as a sister, girlfriend, and future mother. One thing that stuck out to me throughout his passage specifically and throughout the book was the substantial amount of generalization for the genders. In the passage, the authors state, "As therapists, to engage a boy in conversation, we often need to communicate differently with him than we would with a girl. With girls we can ask, 'How are you feeling? '" (Kindlon & Thompson, 1999, p. 255). For me personally, and in Kindlon & Thompson