Texting Stereotypes

It’s weird how texting someone can be so different than talking to them on the phone. That’s why it’s important to learn what works when learning how to ask a girl out by text. Today we’re going to cover to basics of what works in your favor, and what you can avoid. Doing more of the right things and less of the wrong things is an obvious way to get you on the right track when getting this part of your life handled.

Now in this article, when I say “asking her out” what I’m referring to here is literally what it means, asking her to hang out in person. Texting is NOT a good way to ask a girl to be your girlfriend, or to really have any deep level of interaction. Use the phone to move towards seeing her in person and you will see better results

She will smile and laugh and become interested in what you have to say.
You connect for a couple of minutes and get her phone number….Now what?

So at this point she is interested in you, but not enough to see you as anything more than a random encounter. That’s alright and actually a natural thing. There is only so much we can do when making our first impression. Less is definitely more. Do what it takes to get the right idea in her mind and nothing more. Sometimes conversations will only be two minutes long in person, or only 3 texts back and forth. That’s fine. Let’s get into the habit of sticking with what works.

The goal with the first few texts is to reinforce the attraction and connection you built up in person. Actually it is an excellent idea to get into the habit of forming “inside jokes” with girls when you meet them. That way you can start a text conversation by bringing up the joke. These kinds of texts are 2-for-1’s because they get her laughing and seeing you in an interesting way, AND they build a sense of comfort between the two of you, like you’ve known each other for a while. Pulling the

The longer you wait, the more she’ll start thinking it wasn’t meant to be. Once you have established attraction and comfort than its okay to ask her to hang out. As I said before; this can be in as short as three texts.

It actually works in your favor to ask her to hang out the same day you text her. This shows that you’re serious and even if she can’t make it out that night the chances of her saying yes to the day you reschedule for are now much higher. Once she knows you aren’t playing games and have the balls to ask her out she’ll want to see you, if you did everything right in the previous steps.

Side note: the best nights to ask her out are “date nights”: Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. Ask her that morning to hang out later in the evening so you can both make some room in your