In the book, Fist, Stick, Knife, Gun: A Personal History of Violence, by Geoffrey Canada, the author provides an insight of the violent acts throughout his life. Geoffrey was a young child in the Bronx when he was made aware of violence. His father was
" Since then, the boy carefully watched for his father's movement. When the parents or someone that the child lives with abuse them, they suddenly have to protect themselves from being abused by watching their actions or thinking about how to fight against the parents. In the other hands, children tend to grow up and act like their parents and they do the exact same thing that their parents used to do with them when they were a kid. Child abuse effects on a child's life greatly.
Although I knew abuse was utterly unjust and inhumane, I had not paid much attention to it prior let alone knew about the disorders it brought with it. Usually, all i knew of was PTSD, because that was all i had heard of. This book brought light to other lesser known effects of abuse, like MPD, DID, or Truddi's case. I think it is very important to be aware of these different disorders- as many people are affected by them annually. Abuse can be found in any type of household or situation and it’s so crucial to help stop it in time
“Sexual, racial, gender violence and other forms of discrimination and violence in a culture cannot be eliminated without changing culture.” - Charlotte Bunch. Domestic abuse is a hostile dispute involving the use of violence among household or family members. It is a universal phenomenon that occurs in all races, ages, socioeconomic backgrounds, occupations, and genders (“What is Domestic Violence?”).
In today’s world, there are countless children that experience verbal abuse in their homes, and this type of abuse can also be seen in writings from today and long ago. In the article “Verbal Abuse,” Sharon W. Stark shares that “verbal abuse is a specific type of psychological or emotional abuse. [...] Verbal abuse can be overt or covert, but it is always related to controlling and manipulating the victim. [... It] may consist of shouting, insulting, intimidating, threatening, shaming, demeaning, or name calling” (Stark 1).
The short story PAIN is an intriguing, yet sorrowful narrative that draws the reader towards the theme of abuse. The story is told from the perspective of a teenager, who deals with abuse from their intoxicated father. For the majority of people who are abused, they are impacted physically, mentally, and emotionally and the short story PAIN certainly describes the life of someone who is abused, which is shown through the protagonists eyes. Some people who are abused, often are physically harmed as a way of proving they have power over the victim. In the story the father used his nearly finished liquor bottle, and his belt as a way of having power over his child.
In the poem, “The Child Who Walks Backwards”, Lorna Crozier discusses the cover up of parental abuse in narrative style of poetry. Lorna Crozier expresses the point of view as if someone is observing the abuse from the outside, specifically the neighbor to the mother and child. The poem proclaims that the son of a mother constantly runs into things and sleep walks during the night which supposedly were the causes for the marks and injuries that appeared on the young boy. Upon closer analysis, it comes to realization that the child is the victim of abuse. Parental abuse is something that everyone should be wary about because a lot of parents abuse their children and force them to be silent about it.
To further explain, in the Girl Rising documentary, viewers are taken through the life of a young girl, Suma, in Nepal. She was only six-years-old when her parents exchanged her obedient working hand for money. She was then sent to a home where she would do chores such as washing the dishes, cut firewood and maintain the farm. At her next working home, Suma’s employer’s forced her to eat their scraps, and called her “unlucky girl”. At this home, she was sexually abused, but she did not let that define her.
Valeria Oceguera Violence in the family Professor Hoffman February 23,2017 A Child Called ‘It” A Child Called “It” by Dave Pelzer is a story about a child named David, who is a victim of abuse from his mother and tells his story of how he struggles to stay alive, search for food and the problems he has in school. David lives with his mother, father and brothers, but at the end of the book, he feels a strong hatred for his family and a strong hate for the people who knew about the abuse, David also regrets being born and questions if God exists. There are many health issues that happen when abuse happens to a child specifically and these include, “suicidal thoughts, eating disorder, PTSD can develop from a childhood of abuse.”
Oppressors force and beat women in order to provide children. Margaret Atwood depicts this exact story in her book The Handmaid’s Tale which centers around Offred, a handmaid whose only job in Gilead is to provide a baby. In this dystopian society, women are forced into traditional gender roles enforced by a strict religious ‘code.’ Offred, along with the other women, struggles to survive emotionally and physically every day. They use many methods that can be explained using Freudian theory.
In Bradbury 's short story, the children are terribly cruel to her because they restrained her from seeing the sun. However, later they realize the weight of their cruelty on themselves. For example, “Their faces were solemn and pale. They looked at their hands and feet, their faces down.” Their feeling of guilt is shown by revealing actions and descriptive
Hate, fear, and grief are exceptionally powerful emotions that can alter one's mindset. In Small Great Things by Jodi Picoult, Turk Bauer is a white supremacist who is led by hatred and grief for the majority of the novel since he blames Ruth Jefferson, a black nurse, for the “murder” of his newly born son, Davis Bauer. Turk Bauer has an incredible amount of hatred for Ruth, although as the novel progresses he becomes more aware of his actions and thoughts. At the end of the novel is where he truly questions his beliefs, but in the end he understands that his love is getter than his hate. This demonstrates that personal empathy, critical thinking, and love is stronger than hate, fear and grief.
The short documentary “Child of Rage” presents an example of how experiencing abuse as a child can shape the child later in life and how some children can recover. The intrafamilial abuse that Beth experienced as a one year old affected her behavior later in her childhood when she was adopted. Beth was also able to recover from some of the effects of the child abuse she experienced once she was separated from her adoptive family and taken to a special home. Beth experienced intrafamilial abuse at the hands of her biological father after her mother passed away when she was one.
To better understand the cause of intimate violence will help to come up will help come up with a better solution on solving this problem. There are various theories that have come up to explain the main causes of domestic violence, some include; learned helplessness theory, Intergenerational Transmission Theory, Social–Psychological Model and the feminist theory. All of these theories have tried to illustrate the causes of domestic violence. In this paper, I will target my writing on the feminist theory where it emphasizes power and gender inequalities in relationships. The theory focuses on how societal messages that makes it alright for a male to use aggression and violence, and the gender roles that dictate how women and men should act in their relationships
Early Americans did not consider child abuse a crime. ”Children over the age of 7 were made to work as hard as adults of the time period. They were beaten if they did not. Child abuse happens with children of all ages, gender, and religions, in any period of time. “ Likewise, the world can be identified as a bad bad bad place, where child abuse occurs around the world, and is even in the United States.
