My journey as ALS Graduate, College Student and a Fulltime Mom
Many of my relative said that I am a black ship of the family; they said that someday my life will ruined and futile. I do not know if it is a curse but in reality, it happens trouble comes in my life many of circumstances came and it happens in just a split of a second. I would become pregnant at the age of seventeen and became a mother at the age of eighteen. I thought that is this the end of all my dreams. At that time I am a single mom because the father of my child abandoned us, I do not know how to feed my son my siblings and my mom. Thinking inside if the world hated me that much or God punishes me for no reason.
Asking myself why did God let my auntie curse me that way? Ask myself back again if curse is real. Moreover, realizing that maybe it is my future, but I am not that weak to give up and accept the reality wants for me. I have to do something to change my life for the future of my only son. In my mind, I was building a good future for my son thinking systematically how I am just a grade six graduate. Working as a sales person, messenger, house cleaner, etc. and salary is not good enough to feed my son and my family. Blaming my father again because of him I did not finish my study who else I can blame myself maybe. But I don’t want to stop my life on that situation, when I was working at the “capitol of Pasig” I observe people professional and non-professional, comparing their life, and then
This book was Pam Muñoz Ryan 's 13th book ever published out of 40. In the book, Esperanza Rising, it
describes how there are many ups and downs during your life but to never be afraid to start over. The
author of this book, Pam Muñoz Ryan, tells the main character 's story in the best way possible. Pam
Muñoz Ryan wrote this book so it would have an impact on everyone who read it.
The concept of future can be imperceptible. It is forged by our present and untouchable past of our life. Relationships can be maintained if built on the foundation of strong undisputed past. Yet, if built upon the uncertainty of past they come crumbling down. Ignorance and selfishness starts to blossom in our veins.
In conclusion, you should always keep going until you succeed, always follow your dreams and use your negative aspects in life to motivate you, and keep your family legacies alive. “ You shoot for the stars, and if you land somewhere in between, you 're still in good shape,” stated by Dekalb Jr. which illustrates how you don 't have to accomplish your goal exactly, as long as you 're doing something that is beneficial to you, your goal has already been accomplished. The
"At the end of the day, we can endure much more than we can think. "- Frida Kahlo.
Have obstacles in your life altered the way your future came to be? If so, you are not alone.
and I do know that there will be more for me to overcome. Although, this time I am ready like never before because I know that I have to save myself. In this paper I will examine two significant events in my life, my decision to further my education and my forced
Baby Project
This past weekend I embarked on a journey, and no probably not the journey you think of. This weekend I had to take home the Real Care Baby project. Going into this project I was not really quite sure what to expect.
Breaking the Cycle
16, 17, 18, 19. These numbers are how old my grandma, my aunt, my mom, and my sister were when they got pregnant with their first child. Most of the women on my mother’s side were teen moms without a college degree, some without a high school diploma and all were single. I plan to not continue this cycle.
Growing up, I saw how my mom struggled to find a career she enjoys with just her high school diploma, even though she is a very intelligent person.
When I was growing up, I experienced many hardships that most people don 't endure. I grew up in the city of Phoenix, Arizona with little to nothing. I had one little sister and an older sister and brother. Even though I was young I knew how difficult my parents had it. My mom worked three jobs and my dad worked in construction just to barely support us.
In the virtual simulation, I was faced with multiple unexpected challenges such as my daughter’s diagnosis of ADHD and her temporary drug use and felt uncertain of what to do. So like most new parents, I took it one day at a time and accepted the fact that I might not get it exactly right every time. I also took advice from professionals, close friends and family when it was necessary. As long as I was putting my daughter’s well-being first and continuously showing her how much I loved her, I was satisfied with the decisions I made. My ultimate goal was to guide her and make sure she grew into a responsible, mature, and intelligent woman.
We all have dreams, we dream about beautiful, comfortable life, with a lot of money, big houses, luxury cars expensive clothes. But these all things are not so important for our lives, we take a lot of hours in job to get enough amount of money to buy theses expensive things, cars and big houses, but instead of this we could spent more time with our family,because our parents are not with us forever, time will come and they will gone, so what we going to do? Only then we will realize that we lost that time, that time which we could spent with them, by taking care of them or just talk and laugh with our parents and family. We could read some book, go for a walk. We lose our time on our jobs because we want to get these expensive things.
People pass through different stages of development throughout their lives. In the process of this, many changes are experienced that affect the life course. There are various theories as well as theorist to choose from in order to gain a greater knowledge of an individual’s development. In this paper I will analyze the Life Course Perspective and Levinson’s Theory of Seasons of Adulthood. After analyzing these theories, I will apply the concepts of The Life Course Perspective and Levinson to my father’s life.
Their decisions have long term consequences and thus they need to think more than once before considering them in their life actions. One wrong decision and whole life can be upside down. In adulthood friends are made to in order that they can be help full in time of need. When the need is over friendship is also over. With all this adulthood is the most complex period of one’s life, wherein the young minds finds a conflict between who they are and who they should be.
Becoming a Single Mother
Becoming a single mother was one of the hardest things to do in my life. I was only nineteen years old and new to the world. I had just gotten out of a five year relationship when I met this guy on social media, a few weeks later we finally met in person. Fast-forward about four months later, I was still working as a manager at one of our local fast food restaurants and just wasn’t feeling the greatest. One of the employees suggested that I could be pregnant, I didn’t think that it was possible since I did my part and was on the Pill, and still currently taking it.
There have been many people in my life who have impacted it both negatively and positively, but no one has had an impact in my life greater than my mom. This woman is just amazing in my eyes, right from the beginning because of the way she raised me, if I had children I would raise them the same way she raised me. The person she is, in general, has really had a great effect in my life, and also how she has always told me about the struggles shes had in her life from the ones I didn't see to the ones I have seen with my own eyes. I believe if I didn't know my mother as well as I do, she wouldn't have influenced me as much as she does.
The way my mom raised me has made me the person I am today, so if I were to say she didn't impact my life I would be lying.
My essay is going to be about the day I gave birth to my daugther. Febubary 27,2015 will alwaysbe a day to remember for me.
I woke and it was a regular day just waiting for my daugther to decide it was time to come out. i had went to starbucks with my sister , mom , and sister in law on my way back home i started feeling uncomfortable. We got back home and waited around.
