“More than three decades of research shows that a focus on “process”—not on intelligence or ability—is key to success in school and in life”. The author, Carol S. Dweck, who wrote The Secret to Raising Smart Kids argues that the recipe for success is not superior intelligence. The pressure of trying to be smarter often leads people vulnerable to failure and afraid to overcome challenges. Intellect isn’t as important as society makes it out to be. Dweck argues that children are more willing to work through a process with a growth mind-set. This helps focus on the problem and build upon personal effort and effective strategies for the future. The difference between those who are helpless and give up and those who strive to learn lie in people’s definition of why they failed. Some people wish to succeed while others would rather give up because it’s easier. A study from the University of Illinois showed that persistent students do not sulk in their failure, but they make it a mission to solve the problem. This takes us back to the idea of bringing up children with a growth mind-set. …show more content…
A person with a growth mind-set is demonstrated by their passion for a subject; they want to learn. However, those who hate school or a subject have a fixed mind-set and couldn't care less about the lesson. Parents should not praise their children for good grades. This encourages more kids to have a fixed mind-set because they think its better to have good grades rather than putting in the effort to know the subject. Most students get it done just to get it over with rather than learning the