Who Is The Friar Selfish In Romeo And Juliet

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Selfish and personal desires guide many in the world. This concept is further explained in William Shakespeare's play, The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet. The play introduces a pair of teens who fall in love with each other despite being from enemy houses. To keep their marriage a secret, they seek the help of a local friar. In his failure to help, Romeo and Juliet die for each other. Friar Lawrence is the most to blame for Romeo and Juliet’s deaths as he did not marry the couple for true love and created a risky plan for them to be together. Friar Lawrence knew that Romeo and Juliet were guided by lust, rather than true love. For example, when Romeo asks Friar to marry him and Juliet, Friar states, “Is Rosaline, that thou didst love so dear/So soon forsaken? Young men’s love then lies/Not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes. 3. What is the …show more content…

Instead of helping Juliet and keeping her with him, the Friar insists she fakes her death. Juliet is roughly thirteen years old, naive, and has no one else to help her. She places all her trust in Friar, believing that faking her death is her only option aside from killing herself. This vial is not guaranteed to work, however, it is the only idea Friar can come up with. Furthermore, Friar Lawrence left his note to an untrustworthy messenger; “I could not send it-here it is again-/Nor get a messenger to bring it there/So fearful were they of infection” (5.3.14-16). The note Friar Lawrence made was an essential part of his plan. The failure to deliver the note pushes Romeo to return to Verona to kill himself to be with his wife. Due to the lack of thoughtfulness of his plan, Romeo and Juliet believe that killing themselves is their only solution. Friar Lawrence was knowledgeable of the desire Romeo and Juliet had for each other and did not create a well-executed plan to help them. Friar Lawrence is a mentor figure to both, which is why Romeo and Juliet sought out his help to ensure their union was blessed and