Losing Loved Ones And Losing yourself Have you ever lost something important to you or have you ever felt like you were losing yourself? Coming of age is anytime you make steps towards growing up whether you are 12 years old or 35. Anytime an event in your life causes you to grow up this is your coming of age. Finding one's identity and experiencing loss are two essential components of growing up and coming of age. The book A Long Way Down by Jason Reynolds is the story of a Boy named Will who just lost his brother and is trying to cope with the grief and find a way to move on. The book A Part-Time Indian by Sherman Alexie talks about a Yound Indian boy with some physical deformities going to a white school and trying to balance being both a student and that school and a …show more content…
When Junior goes to this school people treat him differently he acts differently he even goes by a different name. He doesn’t want to forget about his heritage and the people he left behind but he feels like this school will get him on a better path for life. He also feels a little bit guilty about leaving his friends and family from the reservation behind and moving on in life. You can see this in a quote from the book "My name is Junior," I said. "And my name is Arnold. It's Junior and Arnold. I'm both." I felt like two different people inside of one body. Pg (60). Junior doesn’t know exactly who he is, is he a Reservation Indian or a White Basketball player? In this story, we see Junior grow into a more confident person because of this. In the end, he embraces both sides of himself and becomes a stronger and more capable person because of this. Knowing who you are and your identity is an important part of coming of age and becoming your own person. Some people go their whole life trying to be someone they are not when in reality they should just be themselves and they will live a much better