Death is something that will eventually happen to everyone, but there are so many different ways of people that deal with death around them. There are some people who don’t deal with death well, so they become mentally and emotionally unstable for their entire life. On the other hand, there are people who accept death for what it is and take the necessary steps to become more tolerant to it. In Being Mortal, by Atul Gawande, he speaks about the various aspects (such as the cost of taking care of elderly people) that surround death that people often neglect. Death can be a very taxing area of discussion, but once people accept its cruel nature they can overcome the burden it brings. I’ve been to two wakes in my life, but each one was a very different experience in comparison to one another. The very first wake I went to was an old friend, Jake, who had a heart problem from a very young, elementary school. When I went to his wake, his parents decided that his body shouldn’t …show more content…
However, these different lifestyles for elderly people has so much variation to it that there is a plan for almost everyone. The only thing stopping people from having the perfect plan is the cost that is usually associated with these plans because the severity of each elderly varies heavily. For example, my great-grandfather, who is in his late 90’s, is still able to have a coherent conversation with my family and knows exactly what is going on in the world. As a result, he lives in assisted living, where he can a life how he wants to, without a heavy regiment. I don’t think there is a perfect solution in taking care of elderly people because you either give them the best care or you become financially broke of taking care of an elderly person. There is definitely a hard balance between taking care of your loved ones while trying to stay financially