The overwhelming lessons which I learned from the book are explained below.
We all want to be successful and for that, we must take efforts in right direction. If we want to achieve
our goals, overcome all the challenges that we face in our lives we must change ourselves, change our
habits as given in the book. The roadmap towards success leads through the habits proposed by the author
and those habits can be learned by practice and over the period of time. However, we must be open to
change. We should apply our principles to achieve our desired results. We must be focused on our
character ethic side as primary and then look for personality ethics as secondary. Character ethics plus the
personality ethics will definitely make our life
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First comes our
advantages and pleasures. This habit of ours is by human tendency and because of the people
surrounding us. In order to imbibe the habits given by the author deep within us, getting rid of our
selfishness is most important. And it’s one of the challenges that we face while living the world
as per the book.
Ego: Another hindrance that we face is our Ego. Our ego doesn’t allow us to understand others
perspective and understanding behind the things. Our confidence sometimes leads to the
arrogance it’s due to the egoistic behavior and it spoils our personal relationships as well.
Feeling of superiority: Sometimes we feel that we are superior to others and treat people very
low. It’s another reason which leads to relationship damages.
Being Reserved: Many people are of reserved nature. The shy feeling is the main obstacle for
being proactive. It protects us from taking initiatives. However, if you are confident and
overcome this feeling of being shy we can definitely learn to take initiatives and practice to be
proactive. Getting rid of the shy nature is the prerequisite to be
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It can only be achieved through isolating ourselves from the
laziness factor.
Feeling of Insecurity: This is the most important human trait that is addressed by the author
which needs to be looked upon or treated in a way to look at the things in a cheerful way. Many
times we show our happiness from outside while greeting people for their success but we know
better how our inner soul has insecurities about it. And this feeling of insecurity is definitely
prone to hamper our relationships in the long term. Hence to win hearts of people, to gain trust of
other people, the obstacle of insecurity feeling needs to be laid off from ourselves. In every deal
we must think of the benefits of another party as well as us. It will help in ensuring long term
relationships which will lead to the success while dealing with others.
CONCLUSION
Overall this book touches all the aspects of our life. All the minute problems that we face impact us in a
great way. However, dealing with the problems cannot be ignored and hence the methodologies that are to
be followed are very well explained in the book. The practical experience shared by the author at