One problem is an unfortunate sematic ambiguity with the word “jealousy” but not with the word “envy”. Jealousy has been defined as resentment against a rival or a person who has been more successful. Envy, as unpleasant as it can be, usually does not contain a sense of betrayal and resultant outrage. For example, In A Separate Peace, Finny said “He had never been jealous of me for a second. Now I knew that there never was and never could have been any rivalry between us. I was not of the same quality as he”. The envy Gene has for his friend finny is portrayed as jealousy in A separate Peace by John Knowles. It is very true that finny is just one of those guys that everybody knows , likes , and is attracted to because he is innately good …show more content…
Envy has the ability to destroy the capacity to enjoy life. Leaving one to always feeling robbed, cheated, defrauded. We experience our own life as a lacking, an emptiness. And yet envy and jealousy are not the same emotions. Jealousy, as outlined above, has to do with holding on to what you have because you are afraid that someone else is going to take it away, while envy has to do with wanting what someone else has. That said, neither word has a positive connotation, as they both are based on discontentment, resentment, and bitterness toward other parties. Jealousy involves thinking you will lose, or have lost, some affection or security from another person because of someone or something else.
In other words, jealousy is the desire for abstract things and people, or relationships, instead of material objects. They both have a similar outcome because they bring about hatred and regret. However, envy is more demeaning because it wishes for the loss of others and brings about happiness in others sadness. Jealousy is more of a feeling, while envy acts upon it. Envy is anger turned inward for something that someone has like status, possessions, power, or wealth that they don’t have but wished that they did while jealousy is resentment of a rival or a person who has been more successful than they and is competing with their own affections for that thing or person. Jealousy is also form of fear or suspicion of someone or something that is competing with what