Is money more important than having family and real friends? The American Dream is different from the American reality for Gatsby in The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald because Gatsby slowly realizes he has no real friends, no family, and no love. Gatsby did not have any true friends. When Gatsby had big parties the whole west egg would show up but when Gatsby’s funeral was going on everyone was too busy to attend. During the part where Nick is calling people for Gatsby's funeral Nick say’s, “However, that was my fault, for he was one of those who sued to sneer most bitterly at Gatsby’s on the courage of Gatsby’s liquor, and I should have known better than to call him”(Fitzgerald 169). Nick feels like he is the only one that truly knew Gatsby nobody. When Gatsby died no one was willing to plan the funeral but Nick did. This proves that the people who showed up to Gatsby’s party were not his friends, yet only for his liquor. Gatsby never got to experience what love really was. …show more content…
Throughout the time Nick was talking about Gatsby's love he says “He knew that Daisy was extraordinary, but he didn't realize how extraordinary a “nice” girl could be” ( Fitzgerald 149). Daisy was the first old money girl Gatsby has ever met; this is the reason Gatsby falls in love with her. This proves that Gatsby knew Daisy was right for him. While this may be true Daisy was in love with Tom Buchanan. She was not interested in Gatsby because of Tom’s wealth and high social standing. Finally, Gatsby never got to experience having a loving