I Want To Die First Everyone has thought of their own mortality before, their unavoidable death, but what people tend to avoid and repress is the death of their loved ones. In Dr. Olberding’s essay “Other People Die” she brings to light the distinct difference between eastern and western philosophies on death. Dr. Olberding also argues that it is equally important to come to terms with your own mortality and the mortality of your loved ones. The early Confucians take on death largely differed with Zhuangzi’s through their lavish and long-term bereavement process. While Zhuangzi’s take on death outright renounces ritualized mourning. It is difficult to choose between what is more difficult to come to grips with, your own mortality or the mortality …show more content…
Olberding brings to light the oppositional points of view of eastern and western philosophies about death. Firstly eastern philosophy on death revolves around the problem of other people dying. Differentiating directly with western philosophy on death because western philosophy focuses on the problem of your own death. With both ideologies in mind Dr. Olberding argues that it is equally important to find the best way to respond to personal mortality and to the death of others. With personal mortality, being a westerner herself, Dr. Olberding claims that philosophy is a formidable strategy for assuaging ones fear of their own inevitable death and mortality. She claims this because philosophy defines what death is and rationalizes the anxieties brought on by awareness of personal mortality. Eastern philosophy focuses on the problem dealing with the loss of others, which everyone who lives a life in companionship with others will feel, at some point in their life. Dr. Olberding states that the problem of death is actually the problem of loss. In her essay she uses the traditions of both Confucius and Zhuangzi and their reflections on the death of others. By meticulously researching both sides of western and eastern philosophies on death Dr. Olberding concludes that finding the best way to cope with individual mortality and mortality of others are equally important to a person on an emotional, psychological, and philosophical level. She concludes this because both affect …show more content…
Early Confucian opinions about death are that the bereaved cannot go on normally but they must go on so they must go in in a way that respects the loved ones lost. This statement reasons why the early Confucians had long and elaborate mourning rituals. Differing from the early Confucian opinion, Zhuangzi believed that death is like the four seasons because we start out as nothing then form into a person then we die and have no form (Down). A further explanation of this is that when Zhuangzi’s wife died he immediately felt her loss deeply but then he remembered his wife as her happy and exciting personality and he began to celebrate her life. Zhuangzi’s opinion on death allows some mourning for a short time but then with rationalization that death is inevitable and the natural flow of life he believes celebration for the deceased is
When death occurs everyone is heartbroken and they try to give their condolences to the affected family. In The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian Arnold states, “When it comes to death we know that laughter and tears are pretty much the same. We said goodbye to my grandmother… Each funeral was a funeral for all of us. We lived and died together”.
It roots to our idea of the philosophy of life, in terms of reflection on our existence as humans and not only the contingence but the limitations thereof. Death encompasses the individual’s fundamental existence on the one hand and reshapes our concepts of its nature complementing one another in order to enlighten the idea of it. The manifestation of an individual to herself/himself is made probable by nothingness. The notion of spirituality and death in existentialism.
Death is not so light a concept as to glance off of those it does not take. Oftentimes, when death claims someone close to you, it seems easy to fall into a lethargic pit of despair, contenting oneself only to dwell on the morose incontrollable nature of the universe. I know I felt this way, especially with the guilt laid upon me with the death of my brother. I do not claim to know anyone else’s grief, or to know the best way for anyone to deal with the loss of such a beloved girl. I do know, however, that “when you lose something you love, faith takes over” (Tan 2166).
Kiran Nayyar Ms. Chan Advanced English 9 15 March 2022 The Desolation of Death Death is a universal experience that everyone deals with once in their lifetime. It is often accompanied by fear, which prompts people to talk about it in hushed whispers, behind closed doors, where they feel safe from its grasp. Yone Noguchi was one of the few who dared to share his thoughts on this subject.
Atul Gawande’s book, “Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End,” explores different themes such as, aging, death, and the mishandling of both aging and death by the medical profession’s. This book also addresses what it means to live well near the end of life. It is not just to survive, not just to be safe, not just to stay alive as long as the medical technology allows, but, according to the author it is about what living truly means to an individual. The author describes that the idea of “Being Mortal” developed as he watched his elderly father go through a steep decline in his health and the eventual death. He soon realized that during his medical education and training he was never taught how to help his patients with managing
“It’s a lack of love we die from. There’s nobody here I can love, all the people I could love are dead or elsewhere. Who knows where they are or what their names are now? They might as well be nowhere, as I am for them. I too am a missing person” (103).
Magical thinking is the anthropological idea that if one performs the right actions, or hopes enough for something, their desired outcome will happen. The concept of “magical thinking” is one of the central ideas discussed in Joan Didion’s memoir The Year of Magical Thinking. This memoir explores the grief experienced by the author after losing her husband of nearly forty years. In no way does Didion try to approach death poetically, but rather honestly and practically. She bravely discusses the universal, yet rarely talked about, aspects of death, such as self pity, regret, isolation, secretly going crazy, and the phenomenon she describes as “magical thinking.”
Whether it is the journey of the soul, judgment and rebirth, or the promise of eternal life, the afterlife offers a sense of continuity and purpose beyond physical existence. Through the stories and traditions of these mythologies, we gain insight into the human experience of grappling with mortality and unknown mysteries. Finally, the afterlife reminds us that death is not the end, but a transition to a new phase of existence. As author Raymond Moody once said, "Death—the last sleep? No, it's the last awakening.
John Donne and W;t To dwell upon ones’ notion of death, and morality, is to comprehend ones’ values and thoughts through the context of society… Though different eras both John Donne and Margaret Edson explore similar thematic concepts: The Holy Sonnets and W;t. The presence of death, morality and conspicuous human nature, explores the ethical and moral structure of present society, and broadens our understanding of the ever changing beliefs, values, and contexts of the current audience. Edson had written her play during the mid 1990’s in a time where the secularised society viewed death as less prominent, and the consequential effect on society’s attitude towards death in Donne’s era. Edson’s play essentially transfigures the poems into a
Dying is simply ending the current form in which you take, however you will transform into something else that will be useful to the world. Kohn stresses to the reader that being satisfied with the order of things will bring neither joy nor sadness. He goes on to express how people are bounded by mankind. Regardless of the sight of situations, the Heavens will win. Therefore, there is no need to go against the order of destiny.
Most importantly, it wants to open the door to Nirvana in order to escape from the six realms of existence. On the other hand, in Taoism, it aims to reach the immortal state and stress on performing exercises and ritual to improve physical health. In this essay, I will compare the views of life and death in Taoism and Buddhism and state two differences between them. Comparison and Contrast First of all, Daoism and Buddhism have different explanations and perspectives on reincarnation. In Daoism, the word ‘Dao’ means the path or the way.
Humans are a fragile species, and we are capable of dying at any moment regardless if we are ready or not. In Sherman Alexie’s “War Dances”, he illustrates the narrator’s coping with death and compares it to that of those around him. Upon figuring out that his death is no longer a looming threat, the narrator goes back to living life as if nothing happened cementing the idea that the threat of death is ever present but we choose to live as if it is not. Throughout the short story, Alexie utilizes the narrator’s experiences with the deaths of others and with the threat of his own to demonstrate the theme that death is always a possibility and there are many ways of coping with it. The narrator is hopeless about fighting his own death but utilizes humor to cope with the idea of dying.
From the beginning, children are taught to fear the concept of death. Most people spend their lives fearing death, but it’s not death that they are afraid of. It is part of nature to die, and our minds know that, what scares most people is the thought of death before they have had time to accomplish what they want in life. In “When I Have Fears That I May Cease to Be,” John Keats put into words how people feel about dying before they have been successful in whatever mission they have set forth for themselves. His poem touches the reality of people’s feelings though imagery and figurative language.
Walt Whitman is one of the leading mystic poets of death in the field of American poetry. Death is assigned a distinguished space in his poetic universe of Leaves of Grasswhich immensely colours his vision of life. This paper is an attempt to present Whitman’s attitude towards death vis-à-vis global mystic perspective. Reality of Death
The message is simple: we are spirits residing in human bod- ies temporarily. Death is but the demise of the human body, not the destruction of the entire person. In recent years, people have stud- ied the phenomenon of life after death. Raymond A. Moody Jr. approached the subject in his book entitled “Life after Life.” In speaking of death, he states: “If we are to talk of death at all, then we must avoid both social taboos and the deep-seated linguistic dilemmas, which derive from our own experiences.