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Family In I Am The Messenger

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Family is a word familiar to all, but understood by few. It is arguable that there is no factor more influential in one's development than their family. Indeed, families should not only provide a safe haven, but they should also instil morals and beliefs into their offspring. However, a negative family environment can have a detrimental effect in the mentality of an individual. For this reason, families should take appropriate measures in order to create a caring and supportive environment. What makes the roles of families even more important is that they provide the structure and foundation of today's society. In "I am the Messenger", novelist Markus Zusak illustrates the importance and influence of families on an individual's behaviour. …show more content…

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