When Sula sleeps with Jude, nothing is the same again. By the end of Sula, Nel not only loses a husband but also an irreplaceable friend, sparking questions of betrayal, morality,and forgiveness. First, to emphasise the unique connection Sula found with Nel, Morrison exemplifies the nature of Sula’s relationships with men. Sula drifts from city to city, man to man, and determines that “for a woman” a lover cannot be a friend (121). In other words, the expectations others have for her do not fit the expectations she has for herself. She does not want to submit to the cult of domesticity; she wants to be seen as an equal. She craves respect and understanding, of which she receives so little. This desire leaves her blinded by love for Ajax, a