The challenges experiences in new phases of life can create change, leading to a deeper understanding of self and others.
The concept of transitions invariably involves an individual moving into a new phase of life. However, no successful transition occurs without challenges. It is the wisdom acquired from these hindrances which trigger shifts in the attitude and beliefs of an individual and a deepened understanding of the self and others. This notion is apparent through the journey Tom in J.C. Burke’s novel ‘The Story of Tom Brennan’ who must confront a traumatic experience which compels him to undergo a physical relocation and significant emotional change.
The fear of confronting the truth can impede an individual’s journey to healing. This
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With time, Tom finds the means through which to cope with his afflictions. It is important to note that Tom suffers a momentary setback when making a present for Daniel however it does not deter him from his goals like it used to. He acknowledges that “once, probably not that long ago, I’m not sure I could’ve [come] back at all” demonstrating his heightened self-awareness. His voice parallels his transition; initially nervous to face his adversities his voice is shaky and nervous, however his eventual emotional maturation allows him to face his future with hope and confidence. Through his heightened self-awareness, he was able to see past his own suffering and contributes significantly in helping others overcome their adversities. This prompts him to make a sentimental scrapbook for Daniel. The scrapbook is a physical representation of the advice Daniel’s social worker gave the family: “…when the memories come back, let them in, look at them, then move on”. Tom also moves from his intolerance for his Gran to a genuine appreciation for her sacrifices as demonstrated through the gift of a new chook pen. In addition, he finds forgiveness for Kylie following her speech further demonstrating his deepened understanding of those around him. In accepting the situation at hand and moving positively towards improvement for all, individuals are able to develop personal qualities including resilience and self-awareness which equip them to deal with new situations and move beyond the darkness of the