Good evening,It's my honor to stand here and give you a speech.I'm Phyllis.I'm here to talk to you about the importance of praise.No matter praise others or ask for other's praise.
And the way I got interested in this was,I notice in myself,when I was growing up,and until about a few years agao,that I would want to say thank you to someone.I would want to praise them.I would want to take in their praise of me and I just stop it.And I asked myself,why?I felt shy,I felt embarrassed.And then my question became,am I the only one who did it?
Well,I would like to say something about it.Here is a real story.And like all good stories,it start like this:Once upon a time,there is a gentleman,he had major crash on a beautiful lady,just like all the end of good stories,they got married.However,married life is not like all good story.They divorced.Why did that happen?On the one hand,The gentleman longing to hear his wife say,"thank you for being the breadwinner,so I can stay home with the kid."But won't ask.On the other,his wife love her husband so much and she was so pround of him,but she never told him.It's because she didn't know that her husband needed to hear it.Year by year,day by day,the gentleman never ask for praise and the lady never expressed her praise.The conflicts between them were becoming more and more complicated until explosion.So my question is,why don't we ask for the thing that we need?Why don't we praise others in words?What if the gentleman told his wife that he need?What if the lady told her
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why can we ask a glass of milk,but we won't ask a praise?It's because sometimes we do not want others know our heart.even if we are close. But It's really for free,right?Just try it and let others know you need their praise.I'm sure they will meet your need.So I have one request to all of you,priase thoes who mean most important to you and ask praise that you need to