Invisible Strength In Amy Tan's Rules Of The Game

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“If I lost, I would bring shame on my family.” Could you imagine the pressure from family to succeed in a whole new country? The pressure of adapting and learning a whole new culture can take its toll on a person. In “Rules of The Game,” A young Chinese girl is trying to find self-determination from her family. Waverly and her mother have differences in culture and how they live. She leans more towards the American lifestyle as her mother takes pride in being Chinese. At the age of six, Waverly’s learns the key strategy to winning arguments as well as showing respect to others from her mother teaching her the “art of invisible strength." She uses this strategy to take arguments, gain respect from others and to win at the game of chess. Amy Tan ironically uses the skills of playing chess to demonstrate how Waverly learns the game of life. Waverly’s mother has taught her a lesson even though they don’t see eye to eye on things. When they were at a store, she decided to test her ability of art of invisible strength. Waverly …show more content…

Her mother says, “Is shame you fall down nobody push you.” Meaning Waverly can't blame anyone for her lack of success but herself. Choosing between American and Chinese culture causes Waverly to feel lost in life her way of life. The Chinese cultural values her mother tries to teach clashes with her new American lifestyle. Their tradition only allows an obedient child to live in the household. They will not tolerate misbehavior. Every member in the Chinese family is responsible to take on the honor of the cultural tradition. The American culture focuses more on being independent and one’s own values rather than taking on family legacy. Waverly’s American lifestyle leads her to not having her family’s support towards her winning in chess games. Her disobedient behavior makes her lose faith in which she gained from her mother’s Chinese