Parenting In A Thousand Splendid Suns

Parents or guardians may raise their children in various ways. Each way is different, including secure, insecure, anxious, ambivalent, insecure, avoidant, and disorganized. secure being the best, disorganized being the worst. The two main characters Mariam and Laila, in A Thousand Splendid Suns, experience one or a mixture of these in their story. Mariam’s relationship with her mother is insecure, and her father is anxious and ambivalent. These two ways of parenting are different in their own ways. Laila's relationship with her mother is insecure and disorganized; her father is secure. These two ways of parenting are drastically different. All of these ways also affect the child when they are adults, with some having a negative effect and some

The child feels secure and secure. Safe and soothed, and they often come back to their parent or guardian for comfort or to feel safe. They have a compassionate environment and the freedom to explore their surroundings and the world around them. The parent is also able to empathize with the child. When they become adults, they maintain their sense of identity and like to be connected with others. Feeling secure within themselves and able to make connections with others pretty easily, they are also able to be trusted by others. Mariam, in the story, has no secure relationship. Laila has one, her father. A secure attachment is likely the best relationship to have with your caregiver. The child feels secure and secure. Safe and soothed, and they often come back to their parent or guardian for comfort or to feel safe. They have a compassionate environment and the freedom to explore their surroundings and the world around them. The parent is also able to empathize with the child. When they become adults, they maintain their own sense of identity and like to be connected with others. Feeling secure within themselves and able to make connections with others pretty easily, they are also able to be trusted by others. Mariam, in the story, has no secure relationship. Laila has one, her father. The reason is that her father supports her and makes sure she gets what she needs when she can. He made sure she

Laila often comes to her father when things go wrong in her life or she feels upset. and you would continue going to school, of course. You know how I feel about that? That would be our absolute top priority to get you a good education—high school, then college’’.’’ Laila drew closer to him and rested her cheek against his chest. He seemed slightly startled—unlike Mammy, he rarely expressed his affection physically. He planted a brisk kiss on the top of her head and hugged her back awkwardly’’. He shows affection, and she shows it back. Insecure ambivalence is when a parent is there for them, but sometimes is not. This could be due to a job that the parent has to go to for long, for extended periods. The child can become confused and frustrated and can feel clingy. Desperate or anxious around the parent who is not meeting the child's emotional needs. They also tend to look for others their age to meet their needs. They can have emotional hunger and a lack of love. A good example could be Mariam's father. Jalil only sees Mariam a couple of hours a week; the relationship is on Jalil’s mind because Mariam is isolated from others. He tells her lies and false promises, and he is cowardly and self-preserving. Soon after, in her adult life, Mariam resents