Ralph Flynn is a California man who has recently filed a lawsuit against his parents for using him as a sex slave after adopting him at nine years old from a Russian orphanage. Ralph and Carolyn have been arrested for several months and their trial will shed light on the many abuses faced by Ralph during his childhood and teenage years. Adoption is a very selective process but international adoption may be less so. Every parent in the United States seeking to adopt a child must go through many tests and surveys before being approved as financially, mentally, and physically fit to adopt a young child; this process is to ensure that every adopted child has a good home. However, this process and its extreme rigor may change due to the relevance of this crime.
Regardless of race, one particular adoption issue that steadily occurred in the past was the need to almost conceal the fact that the parents adopted the child, as if adoption was something to look at negatively but contrastingly, corresponding with social standards of the time, “childlessness was considered deviant” (Patton 34). Perhaps the underlying reason for wanting the child to look like the parent is so that a nonstandard act like adoption appears natural. An example of this occurred during the baby boom after World War II until the late 1960s. Unwed white women and infertile couples that sought to have kids could easily match with a white baby with similar physical characteristics and ethnicity. In this way, it served as a beneficial arrangement for both the parents and the child, making the adopted children seem “as if they had been born into their families” and to mask the “sexual deviance of White unwed mothers and infertile White couples” (Patton 20).
Washington Rules emphasizes that the United States should order world politics. The world must be ordered by the United States and cannot be permitted to order itself. As a result of Washington rules, the United States has a duty and moral obligation to be the world’s policeman to the point where other nations just naturally expect us to act. The Washington Rules project of US foreign policy has managed to sustain and regenerate itself since the end of World War Two. However, we often forget that by following Washington rules, we do not follow limits and extend our power.
The current adoption process is broken because of the outlook it tries to portray. The message behind most adoptions is that it is a way to get a child if you can’t get one biologically. This is a prime example of what is wrong with the adoption process. Not all adoptive parents fall into this category, but most adopt for the wrong reasons. Adoption should be about being able to emotionally, financially, and physically support a child.
Transracial adoption (TRA), also known as interracial adoption, involves the placement of children in families that are racially and culturally different from them. In modern western societies, this practice largely involves the placement of minority ethnic children in white adoptive families (Barn, R., 2013). From Colonial Times, through World War II, children from within the borders of the United States were adopted by American parents of the same race. The intercountry adoption (ICA) of foreign-born children, began primarily in North America shortly after World War II and escalated again after the Korean War (Brumble, K; Kampfe, CM, 2011).
Adoption is a way for children who cannot be cared for by their birth parents to become members of another family. In most countries,, children are raised by one or both parents. sometimes both parents cannot provide the love and care their child's needs. “The parents may be young and not prepare or financially-to
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In an article written by The Adoption History Project, it states that after World War II America became more aware of children left alone due to the tragedy of war. Countries such as South Korea, Vietnam and many other were looked at and given help by Americans in giving those children the home, love, and safety that they deserve. The article goes even further by saying “In 1945...inspired the formation of such organizations as the League for Orphan Victims in Europe (LOVE)” (The Adoption History Project, paragraph 3). And with such a long history in helping children in need of a home, why is it that there needs to be regulations either lengthening or stopping the adoption
(Chang et al., 2016). The birth of the adoption agency, Holt International in 1956, allowed American families to start adopting orphans from Korea (IBID). In society, transracial adoption is often considered controversial, especially when the parents are white, and the child is of a racial minority. According to Harf et al.
Additionally, some people fear passing on genetic disorders, such as cancer, Huntington’s disease, or cystic fibrosis. Adoption allows them to experience the bliss of having a family without the apprehension of potentially passing on sufferable health complications (Ten reasons, 2016). 5. Interestingly enough, people even adopt to balance the population growth (Ten reasons, 2016). Such individuals come into conflict with their desire to have a family versus their belief that overpopulation is a major global problem (Ten reasons, 2016).
Transracial adoption (TRA) occurs when the parents and their adopted child are of different races. TRA has been a controversial issue as it is said to affect the child’s racial identity formation and development. Most TRA studies are done in the United States of America (USA) where there is an increasing trend of TRAs. The demand by Caucasian couples for babies is increasing but the babies available for adoption mainly come from African-American or Asian families. In the USA, from 1999 to 2013, the total number children adopted from China and South Korea is 91,002, comprising roughly 36% of the adoptions (Bureau of Consular Affairs, U.S. State Department, 2013).
Couples and individuals in the U.S when looking to adopt can expect to pay as much as $20,000 to $35,000 for a healthy infant in the U.S. Most couples and individuals though, simply don’t have that kind of money laying around, and not to mention the cost has to be paid up front, there are no governmental loans or payments that people can make. For this reason alone many people are forced to give up the idea of adopting in the U.S because of the extremely high cost of a child. Not only is the price a heavy burden to face, but also the process of adoption can take as long as 1 to 7 years in the U.S. This is an extremely extensive amount of time to go through the process of adopting, expecially when it only takes 6-24 months internationally to adopt a healthy infant or child, and can be cheaper. Another issue of turmoil in the adoption process in the U.S is comparing each states laws and agencies, because each state is independent and has different adoption laws.
We live in a complex, unpredictable world, filled with an array of family styles and personalities. Whether or not we recognize it, the family in which one is raised or currently resides plays a pivotal role in their development and opportunities. While we should not blame our circumstance on where we came from, it is crucial that we understand how our childhood influences why we are the way we are. One phenomenon that affects several families, particularly ones with low-income, is parentification. Parentification, also known as the role-reversal of a parent and a child, is not inherently harmful for a child, but it is important to look at the situation objectively and consider the risk-factors.
Homosexuality is becoming more and more accepted and integrated into today’s society, however, when it comes to homosexuals establishing families, a problem is posed. In most states, homosexuals can adopt children like any other married or single adult. There are many arguments to this controversial topic; some people believe that it should be legal nationally, while others would prefer that is was banned everywhere, or at least in their individual states. There are logical reasons to allow gays to adopt children, but for some, these reasons are not enough. The main issue really is, what is in the best interest of the child?
Single parent adoption In today's society, one of the strongest controversy in the world today is over whether or not single parents should be allowed to adopt. Some believe it is socially acceptable for a single parent to adopt a child and that “single prospective adopters of both genders can have much to offer to an adopted child” (The Telegraph Tim Ross), others think that singles should not be able to adopt. In some eyes they see that a child needs two parents so a child can grow up having a mother and father figure to look up to, and by having two parents, one can fill in the other part when one is sick or tired or so on.
