5 Ways You Can Ruin Foreplay
Remove foreplay from the equation of pleasure and there’s just sex. Sure, sex is great, but it’s actually the foreplay that allows you to experiment on each other’s body. Through this you’re able to know which moves drives her wild, intensifying the sexual gratification even more.
Sex on its own is kind of mechanical, really. There’s penetration and thrusting and poof, done. Foreplay is where you learn what pleases you and what doesn’t. It sets the tone for the main event, providing the sexual desire that’s necessary in order to feel that necessity and utmost desire to have sex. You’re gradually prepping your body, setting sexual tension, intensifying attraction, and heightening the longing, so that sex becomes more wanted.
Nevertheless, just like any other sex-related
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Touching her clitoris or vulva to stimulate her won’t work if the pressure isn’t right. That’s why it’s essential to work on it gradually and communicate with her to do it right.
4. Never missing it
There are times foreplay is better left out of the equation, especially if you and your partner have already built a sexual bond even when you’re not having sex. Plus, if you’ve been with her for a long time, you should know her well enough to sense when it’s fine to skip the foreplay and head to the main game. There are also women who are willing to skip this, especially when the call for sex and the thrusting it entails is stronger than kissing, nibbling, and the likes. So, yes, sometimes it’s okay to miss it.
5. Not understanding her
Every woman is different, so your go-to moves for Anna may not work for Jane. Hence, it is important that you’re versatile in bed by initially knowing what your current partner likes. When the moves you’ve used to of doing don’t work well with this new girl you’re dating, be willing to let those go and find other ways to excite her in