Social Depenetration Theory

This theory suggests to “a process of relationship bonding whereby individuals move from a superficial communication to more intimate communication” (West & Turner, 2014, p. 181). This form of relationship is interpersonal, whereby it can evolve in gradual and predictable fashion. There are four assumptions of social penetration theory (West & Turner, 2014). These assumptions are relationships will progress from non- intimate to intimate; relationships development is generally systematic and predictable; relationship development includes depenetration and dissolution; self – disclosure is at the core of the relationships. Transition of stages in relationship will occur where at first, people will discuss and share their superficial information about themselves to others. However, this information will enhance people to move in to a more intimate relationship with progress of time. This concept can be applied

People will compare their rewards received relative to their costs given in relationship. Costs are defined as “the elements of relational life with negative value” (West & Turner, 2014, p. 165). Rewards are defined as “the elements of a relationship that have positive value” (West & Turner, 2014, p. 165), For example, costs are such as time invested, sacrifices that one contributes to maintain a relationship; rewards are such as acceptance, support, companionship, fun that couples have, loyalty towards partner and mutual understanding among each other. In this theory, the worth of a relationship is measured by the deduction of costs from rewards that it provides. As a result, there are two types of relationships that are formed which are positive and negative. Positive relationship indicates that worth in a positive number whereas negative relationship indicates worth in a negative