To Everyone Who Falls In Love Fast, Let Them Love You First

Why are we so enchanted with falling in love? With romance? Why do we treat it like it 's the best damn thing we can ever have? Why do we rush and romanticize everything? Why do we work as hard as we can in order to achieve it as soon as possible?

Why are we so scared with the idea of slowing things down? Why are we terrified of having zero romance in our lives?

Its ideas like this that exist in our heads that makes us fall for everyone who shows us even the slightest shade of affection, its these thoughts that makes us take every chance we get, its these maybes that push us to love every single person that potrays the littlest damn about us and its these concepts that allows us to fall, not at natural rate, but at the fastest speed possible. I remember, my friend once told me to let them love you first, because it 'll be easy for you to catch up.

So, how about the idea of letting them fall in love with you first? Because once they do, you can fall in love back, swiftly and smoothly. You might even race them to the finish line.

Trust me when I say, let them love you first. Evidently, you 're the kind that never takes the slow road, you try your best to fast-track everything when it comes to love – which is exactly the reason why you had millions of heartaches from all the wrong people. It 's all because you fall and you fall quick. No discretion. No safety measures.

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