Romeo And Juliet Irrational Love Essay

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It is important to remain realistic in a relationship. It is easy to get lost in the ideas created by our peers and media of how a romance should be. We learn that it is possible to find somebody you are exactly compatible with, that it is possible to find a perfect match in which there will be no compromise, nor errors within your relationship. The idea we have in this age of relationships is altered and unsupported, and it can lead to a cruel awakening when we find ourselves in our own relationships. In Romeo and Juliet, we see at first the tainted image of love that we find ourselves pining after, they immediately fell in love and they were willing to ignore every resisting variable plagued on their relationship. However, we begin to see …show more content…

Oftentimes we see love to prompt individuals to completely lose touch with themselves and the realities that surround them. It seems that love can bewitch people into making illogical decisions that they eventually come to regret. In Romeo and Juliet, we see this demonstrated time and time again. Throughout the play, Shakespeare demonstrates the irrationality of Romeo and Juliet’s relationship and how it prompted the pair to act as if there were no restrictions or repercussions of their actions, let alone their relationship. At first, the relationship between Romeo and Juliet appeared tame, Juliet put forward statements about the worry and haste she felt about this relationship, and how the two must consider all potential outcomes to their actions as they pursue their relationship. However, this outlook was abruptly changed as Romeo asks for Juliet’s hand in marriage not even twelve-hours after their first meeting. This is a keen example of one of the many decisions that would eventually come to a final regret. “...Therefore love moderately; long love doth so; Too swift arrives as tardy as too slow.” Friar Lawrence expresses that Romeo and Juliet must take this relationship in a careful pursuit. Friar states that if the pair were to devote too much love into this marriage so suddenly that it would ultimately be only