“Wonder,” tells a story about August Pullman, a boy with severe facial deformities, riding on the journey to how he settles into the school environment, make new friends, endure through the harsh setting, and survive the typical middle school dramas. Not only does it show his struggles and reflects his self-doubting process, it also illustrates the malicious and superficiality of people who vainly judge others based on their physical appearance. In spite of the brusque and insensitive comments, he remains spirited.
In this essay, I am taking the thematic approach to produce themes from this book as it unravels. Connecting to the Looking Glass Self, August experienced embarrassment when he overheard his best friend, Jack, talking negatively
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Thereby, adhering to conventions. August tries very hard to adapt to school by making some changes. He cuts off his long bangs that were used to block what he does not want to see (his deformed face) and his padawan strain of braided side hair that was with him for years that signified his obsession with Star Wars. He did not want to be identified as “the boy who loves Star Wars”, not to mention his peers mocking him for his ‘uncool’ hairstyle. In this instance, his desire to ‘fit in’ besides ensuring not to lose ‘face’ made him learn and follow the norms. Likewise, he often held back his tears and avoids hugging his mom in school because he does not want others to see him as a ‘baby’ who needs to be reassured all the time. In addition, not wanting to be embarrassed as no one at middle school hugs their mom. Even so, we do not modify the behaviors that we become unrecognizable. He remains the same person while he changed his hairstyle or behaviors to accommodate to the social setting.
Via, August’s sister, is also going through a transition from middle school to high school. A phase where everyone is judgmental and there are pressures to conform to expectations. She does not want to invite August to her school play because she was fearful that people would see her as “the sister of a deformed brother” because that is what she was known for at middle school. Again, depicting the significance of managing a social self as she desires to be received for who she is and not labeled as something she does not resonate