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Why Is The Perks Of Being A Wallflower A Good Portrayal Of Abuse?

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Alexandra Hamici
Adèle Dostie
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June 20, 2023
Is The Perks of Being a Wallflower a good portrayal of abuse?
Abuse is an issue that affects a large amount of the human population. It can leave people with both physical and mental scars that affect them in more ways than one. Stephen Chbosky’s novel named “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” took this theme and delved into the many painful realities that most victims face into a piece of media, which usually does a bad job representing it. Does this book accurately depict the elements of abuse that it tries to portray? It definitely appears to be the case due to its depictions of the cycle of intergenerational abuse, the difficulty of victims leaving abusive relationships and the many effects of this ill treatment in characters, especially in the adolescents. The …show more content…

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