Themes
Navigating Grief and Loss
This central theme permeates the entire narrative, shaping Sal's journey and driving her actions. Her mother's sudden disappearance leaves a raw, gaping wound, triggering a complex mix of emotions—anger, confusion, and a desperate need for answers.
The fictional narrative of Phoebe serves as a coping mechanism for Sal. By weaving this parallel story, she explores her own pain indirectly, finding solace and catharsis in processing emotions through these characters' struggles. This technique emphasizes the therapeutic power of storytelling and imagination in negotiating difficult feelings, allowing Sal to confront her grief in a safe space.
As Sal uncovers the truth about her mother's disappearance, the complexities of loss unfold. Anger and resentment slowly give way to understanding and, ultimately, forgiveness.
Identity and Self-Discovery
Sal's physical journey intertwines with a crucial internal exploration of her own identity. Uprooted from her familiar life and grappling with her mother's absence, she questions who she is and where she belongs. Her experiences, especially with strong female figures like Minnie Minor, and her growing awareness of her mother's social justice activism help Sal confront traditional narratives about femininity and motherhood.
This journey of self-discovery is further fueled by her connection to her Cherokee heritage. Gram and Gramps share stories and traditions, anchoring her to her roots and offering a sense of belonging. Sal begins to piece together her identity, one that embraces both her cultural heritage and her own unique spirit. By the end, she starts writing her own story, reclaiming agency and defining who she wants to be, not just someone defined by loss.
Family Dynamics and Love
Though physically absent, Sal's mother remains a significant presence, casting a long shadow over Sal's relationships. Her relationship with her father is complex, oscillating between resentment and longing for connection. Their contrasting approaches to grief create a communication barrier that they slowly bridge throughout the journey. Despite the challenges, their bond evolves, highlighting the enduring power of love and family even in challenging circumstances.
Gram and Gramps offer a different model of family love and support. Their contrasting personalities and playful banter create a warm and comforting space for Sal. Their stories and insights become crucial guides, shaping her understanding of life and offering valuable life lessons. Through these interactions, the novel explores the diversity of family dynamics, emphasizing the multifaceted nature of love and how families cope with loss in different ways.
