Adversity seems like a negative experience, but for me, it provided a great opportunity for maturation and learning. Growing up in Connecticut, I never understood what my parents had gone through immigrating to the United States from Argentina in 1983, knowing very little English. I lived in the same place my whole life and I was happy. Then one day, just weeks short of my tenth birthday, my dad came home with news that his company had offered him a position in Switzerland. My parents were both very excited and happy. Needless to say, I was not; I didn’t see the point of leaving everything I knew behind and going to a country with a completely different culture and language. Deep down I was terrified, of being lost in an unknown culture, of being alone because I was leaving my American friends behind. For me it was enough to have a mix of two cultures, Argentine from my parents and American from my home; adding a third seemed like it would present an impossible challenge. …show more content…
It was my first trip to Europe, and I was surprised at how different it was from the United States: on average the houses were much smaller, the restaurants had really small servings, the language was entirely different and the customs didn’t make much sense to me. We returned to the U.S. as the school year began, but because we still hadn’t gotten our visas, my mom would be homeschooling me until we could move out there. By mid-October we began packing for the move. The last few weeks were the hardest; I said goodbye to all my friends, not knowing when I would see them
The exercise we began class with truly opened my eyes to how much I focus on race in both a positive and negative way. I characterize my self as black and Dominican, both groups that have been oppressed by the majority, but by doing so I feel great pride and face adversity. Associating one trait with both the extremes of most problem and one with which I encounter a lot of problems exists as strange. I believe the pride comes from overcoming the adversity and achieving the unthinkable against all odds. Here at UVA, I exist in two of the smallest ethnic groups on grounds.
I chose Abraham Lincolns quote “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.” I agree with this statement 100 percent because any person can fight back from something, but once you give them the chance to do something that’s how you really find out the truth about that person. I have had an experience like this in my life when I was playing football I began the year as a receiver. The starting quarterback got hurt; so our coaches needed someone else to play quarterback. When I was in middle school, I played quarterback, so I told my coaches I could do it.
Surreptitiously and quietly, the posted sentries at the main entrance leading to the Dweller city of New Hope maintained their duties guarding it, keeping watch over any potential threats that may arise from beyond the entrance at any time. From the balcony that stood directly above the steel gates of the main entrance, the Dweller city guard had managed to place a small barrier of sandbags with an additional sentry gun turret, consisting of twin mounted MG42 machine guns. Even further behind the sandbags and sentry turret emplacement was a table, with two G43 semi-automatic rifles leaning on the table. Seated around the table, there were three Dwellers: two Dwellers who were part of New Hope’s city guard, and the Silent Orphan, the leader
I was forced to leave everything I own, including the home that had all my memories in it. The moment I landed in the United States, the challenges got more difficult. I came to the United States without knowing a single word in English. Communicating with others was very difficult and almost impossible. I was not able to say what was going on through my mind.
From the time I was born I have been surrounded by sports. My dad tells me that while my mother was giving birth he was watching the Major League Baseball all star game and she made him turn it off. My middle name is Brenden, named after the now retired hall-of-famer, left wing, Brendan Shanahan. I can remember being in love with sports for all my life. For birthday parties when I was younger I would have all of my friends come over and we would play pick up baseball games.
An obstacle I've had to overcome throughout most of my education was the absence of assistance at home. This caused a great deal of stress on me as a kid. My grandma raised me, who is blind. This resulted in me helping take care of her since I was about the age of six or seven.
I have overcome the previously mentioned adversities, with patience and resilience. My positive attitude has allowed me to conquer my problems no matter how complex. When I respond to an adversity postively and open-minded, then courage, character, and perseverance will then rise from me. As I believe if you do good, good will come to you. I have surrounded myself with incredibly positive people who guide me through my difficult and troubled times.
I was out of the country, without my family there to watch my every move and take care of me. I had gotten the opportunity to be a part of People to People. On this trip I was able to travel to Italy and Greece. While there I experienced some serious culture shock. This was the first time I felt it on such a deep level.
An event that transitioned me from being a child to moving up into adulthood would be when I got my first job. I say this because now I get to make my own money and spend it how I want to spend it. Before, I always needed to ask my parents for money so I can go to places I wanted to go but after getting a job it showed me that now I needed to work, and earn, my paycheck rather than it just being given to me. When I began earning money it gave me a slight perspective of how my parents had to earn their money to get things they wanted along with my other siblings and me. When I had my own spending money I immediately wanted to begin paying for my wants and needs, just to experience what it was like having that sort of responsibility.
“Solo entra ellos no muerden, me tengo que ir a trabajar” she told me in Spanish, here I was in front of my middle school front desk my mother had just walked me all the way to the front desk. Only eight, entering my first day of fourth grade. Most kids had already started class since it was almost the end of fall. I finally got to live with my mom, but that came with having to go to school here in the United States and learning the language. Everything was fine until I had to go into this building filled with kids that were more advanced in everything than me, Feeling like a grain of sand on the beach so small blending in with everyone.
Unfortionally at the age of four I lost my mother and my father had to take care of three children by himself. My dad was a great parent who did not have lots of time to dedicate to his children when he was always working. For that reason at an early age I did not have anybody who encourage me to read. When I started school I always struggled in reading because my first language was Spanish and it was hard for me to start to learn a new language at six years of age. I was always in an ELD class for people who had a hard time with reading and writing.
In a world that idolizes technological advancement, it is easy to rely on it for almost everything. We go to work and school online, we shop online, and we socialize online, amongst other things. We’ve even implemented technology into basic human necessities. Smoke detectors, alarm systems, and even ventilation systems can now be controlled with apps. However, I believe that digital technology is not something we should implement to that extent.
I have changed in many ways, such as. My make up its different now I wear eyeliner on the top, my attitude changed too. Now I actually care about my future. Because I realized that life is important. I have the same friends although one of my friends moved to another city, two of my other friends are at step.
2010 to 2012 were the most influential years of my life. This three year period marked me becoming a teenager, my transition into high school, and the year my family grew with the adoption of two children. When my family of five expanded to seven my life was changed forever. They showed up and I grew up.
I was new to Mountain View Elementary and I only had one friend. I wanted more friends of course. As a Hispanic American child living in Utah you notice your skin, the way you talk, and the way look is different. I never knew being different would make me upset.