~ CONVERSATIONS ~
You don’t have to agree, but at least hear the premise.
“Copycat …? Role Model …? Mentor …?”
Who guides you? Who do you admire? Even if you elect the true and living God, do you obey the Scriptures? Whoever you emulate, idolize, adore — your father, mother, another relative, friend, celebrity – what benefits do you or have you gained from them? Who guides you, and who you admire, is like being fitted for their shoes. If the shoes aren’t a proper fit, your entire body hurts. It affects your mind and everything about who you are and what you can become. Briefly consider my insight.
A copycat is someone who closely imitates or mimics another. Regardless of the behavior being productive or not, the copycat is an imitator and
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The person who seeks a role model puts more thought into the decisions anticipated, —but must be careful. Why is the role model doing what he or she is doing? What is the motive? The goals of the role model and the seeker could be quite different, although the seeker has fixed attention on the tenacity of purpose of the role model. This fixed sensation can ultimately find the seeker in the same position as a copycat – an …show more content…
It is when you don’t have and never knew to utilize cognitive reasoning skills for healthy relationships.
Engaging in a relationship with anything, or with anyone takes responsibility. It’s more than just being there in the company of someone else. What are your motivations for the relationship? Not the false pretense you made yourself believe the relationship was for, but the need you are actually trying to satisfy? If you want a relationship because you’re lonely, getting a hobby would be better than making attempts at a relationship.
For example: Throughout my “love” life I had a pattern that took me many years to understand, and a few more years to believe — I “fell in love” easily. I was what you could call a “Repairman of Broken Hearts (ROBH).” That’s a person who believes they can fix all the assumed problems of someone else. That wasn’t the plan, but that’s how it turned out! In my efforts in being a “ROBH,” I was actually 100 percent of an enabler to women with unproductive