Death is inevitable, yet the death of a family member or close friend always showers us with emotions. Nothing in this world can prepare for the loss of someone but overtime you learn to cope with the pain. Throughout this journey you will have good days and bads days. You might wake up one day desperately trying to avoid the heartbreak, wishing the pain would go away. Or you might wake up one day wondering when life returned back to normal, where the heartbreak went. Regardless of your emotions day by day, the pain from losing someone is something you will never be able to overcome. Overtime things may get easier but the heartbreak of losing someone close to you will never fully go away. During the summer of 2011, I spent one month vacationing with my cousin and uncle. My cousin, Carolina, was only six months older than me. At the time she was fifteen years old and I was fourteen. She lives in Louisiana, which meant I had to fly by myself from Ohio to Louisiana to meet up with her and my uncle. I stayed in Louisiana for two weeks visiting my dad, my sister and my nephews and then me and Carolina and my Uncle Jorge started our vacation. We woke up at four o’clock in the morning and started our drive to Destin,Florida which is …show more content…
At this moment in my life, nothing made sense to me. I flew down to Louisiana for her wake and funeral, which were the hardest days of my life. I never imagined having to bury not only my family member but my best friend. Nothing could explain the amount of pain I was feeling at this time in life. The pain of her loss slowly began to take over me. After the loss of Carolina I became depressed and started going to counseling. Throughout the months of counseling I had to go through, I finally learned to accept the fact that she was actually gone. Counseling taught me that you have to take the good with the