The Importance Of Insecurity

INSECURITY Have you ever been insecure to others? Have you feel this in any kind of situation? Insecurity, what does it means? What does insecurity do unto us? Let me explain. Did you know that insecurity makes your confident lost, why? Because if your starting of being insecure to others you 're just showing yourself that you can 't do what they do, in short you don’t trust yourself that you can do all the things that what others do. Insecurity this means you 're doubting yourself, your abilities, and not believing yourself of doing something. Insecurity is a feeling of uncertainty or lack of confidence about yourself. Let me give some example about this base on my experience, for me

According to my friend one of the reason of having insecurity to others is jealous for example is in school usually happening to students and teachers because of the “favoritism”. It’s starts when the teacher is always paying attention at a one person or student especially during recitation. Insecurity can also feel in family. Why? For example if in your family you have a younger sibling and you get jealous because your parents are always paying attention to your younger sibling and everything that your younger sibling wants will be given by your parents .And you, if you want or you ask something to your parents first they will ask if is it important ? they will have doubt or don’t have trust on what is that. So you feel bad on that as a experience I feel so disappointed, hopeless and starting to hate my parents if they will get mad on me I feel that I’m that I’m not belong on this family because they always see my mistakes and always me, the lazy and not that ideal child of a mother and father. Just like in a

We should always think positive and never mind your mistakes just put it on your mind that you’re just doing your best for your dreams. Another thing you should be contented of what you have, you be should be thankful because even though you’re not perfect but the you have the talent that was given to you and you should be proud of it.To reduce insecurity to others, find a thing that you can be paid attention for you to avoid looking to others personality and of course have time for yourself, find a thing that’s makes you happy. For me, personally if i get insecure to any of my friends I’ll just keep my mouth shut and deep inside I always saying that i can do what they are doing and i can rich them. But for now i am avoiding that kind of my attitude because it’s not good to see that a beautiful woman that was made by god is insecure to others. I should be proud of myself and be contented of what I have because all of us was made by god equally. Always never mind other instead focus on yourself on how to become a nice person. Just treat others nicely and respectfully don 't make them feel that you are boastful and don 't show them that you 're thinking that you are much better than them. And in your parents I advise you to more