Have you ever felt alone or isolated from the world? Well from being in middle school, I’ve learned that some people feel as if the world revolved around them. They do things they never would’ve done. Yet, they still do it just to try to fit in the crowd. From many experiences, I have learned that it’s ok to not be with the crowd since the crowd isn’t always the best option.
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Throughout an individual's life, they are taught the expectations of society. If they differ from those accepted ideals, they are seen as weird and different. As children, humans are affected by their surroundings, and they try to adapt to adult ideas of social groups. Each person wants to belong. Yet, people feel lonely and secluded.
We all fear being alone, sometimes enough to change ourselves to fit in. In one’s life there is always a struggle between loneliness and being yourself because society makes one believe that they must change to fit in. What happens when that change however brings the loneliness you were trying to fix. This idea is brought up by Daniel Keyes in his short story “Flowers for Algernon”. In the story the main character is developmentally disabled with an IQ of 68, he goes through an experiment that makes him slowly become much smarter but as he does he finds that he loses what he thought he was going to gain, friends.
In the world of today, people of different ethnicities, cultures, and religion, live in the same communities more often times than not. Although they are technically an association, “black sheep”, or in other words outcasts, are present among the group. These unlucky or perhaps lucky, depending on the point of view, individuals are then alienated either in a positive or negative way. On one hand, there exist a variety of people who believe isolation is only experienced by a select few. On the other hand, some argue that society, at one point or another, makes everyone experience the feeling of being an outsider.
According to Flood (2005, p. 2), ‘Loneliness is a symptom of the absence of interpersonal relationships’. Australian’s are becoming lonely due to an increasing number of disconnected relationships, poor sense of belonging within communities and the rise of people living in single households (Flood, 2005, p. 3). In western societies, 25% of people are considered to be lonely and this has been increasing (Grenade & Boldy, 2008, p. 3). One third of Australians have experienced loneliness at some point in time during their lifetime (Grenade & Boldy, 2008, p. 3). Loneliness can be caused through the separation from a partner, a physical or mental illness, the death of a loved one or from being a victim of physical violence (Australian Institute
The noticeable similarities between the two generations included a common upbringing in which individuals at some points in their micro lives felt notions of loneliness, responsibility or independence, as well has similar experiences from the interaction and socialisation with friends and family. Secondary research claims to suggest that only children are always experiencing times of loneliness. Whilst technologies as well as the media may over-exaggerate the notion of only child being lonely or isolated, a few individuals such as participants from the focus group agreed that there were times during their upbringing that they felt lonely or isolated. One generation Z participant commented, ‘at some points I could definitely say I felt alone, like my friends had all their siblings, and somewhere inside I kinda yearned to know what that feeling would be like, but that isn’t a constant thing that I need.’ Other responses from generation Z participants in the focus group were of similar nature, and it could be concluded that an only child may inevitably feel lonely at some point, especially for a generation Z adolescent.
The Institute of Psychiatry in New Zealand followed over a thousand kids for twenty years. They found that socially isolated children were at significant risk of poor adult health compared with non-isolated children. The need to belong is a fundamental human motivation that, when thwarted, compromises psychological health. Lonely children grow up to be exposed to more stress.
They frequently feel alienated and unable to related to their higher-income piers, because they feel as though they are out of place. [ testimonial ]. Being unable to relate to their piers often creates a feeling of loneliness and not belonging. Low-income, high-achieving students often feel left out of activities their higher-income piers participate in, like shopping and going out for meals, because they simply can't afford it, which leads to feelings of embarrassment, a fear of being judged, and sometimes even feelings of resentment, which can lead to social isolation. [statistic].
Although isolation is known for having a physical effect on people, it’s also known to have an long-term emotional affect too. An example of isolation would be having your spouse die causing you to stay at home due to depression of that loss. In the article “Loneliness In Our Modern Age”, written by Catharine Paddock PhD,
Have you ever felt lonely during your transition from middle school to high school? The causes of feeling lonely is low self-esteem you just feel like you do not fit in. As a result, this is caused by media giving us falsifying beauty standards and making teens develop low self-esteem. Teens who have low self-esteem have doubts about themselves and how they should act. Arnett states, “Teens often have bouts of low self-esteem and feeling of loneliness as they progress from elementary school to high school” (265.)
“Exclusion is never the way forward on our shared paths to freedom and justice” -Desmond Tutu Social exclusion is the act of making specific groups of people feel isolated and unimportant ("Social exclusion definition and meaning | Collins English Dictionary", 2018). Lack of self-esteem and control are common behaviors that socially excluded people suffer from. It can severely affect, in an unfavorable way, how they look at themselves.
They assess the different social factors that influence social cohesion or isolation among the disadvantaged people in the
One main limitation to this study is that there has been few recent done concerning the population sample being studied, specifically, those who come from the Czech Republic. It has been found that causes of loneliness differ among youths from Canada and the Czech Republic, especially if the causes are split into five factors (Rokach, 2003). Specifically, Rokach (2003) found that compared to Canadian youths, Czech youths scored higher on personal inadequacies (low self-esteem, fear of intimacy, feeling socially ill at-ease), developmental deficits (e.g growing up in a dysfunctional home) while the Canadian youth scored higher on social marginality (actual or perceived social rejection.) One should note that the results may be different today due to the Czech Republic's history and the effect it had on the youth. From this, one can conclude that culture can be an important factor in terms of why one feels lonely, which may lead to some being lonelier than others if those specific factors are
As children are exposed to influences outside the home, they begin to develop social skills such as self-control, sharing, and relationship building. Imagine if these skills were never learned. Dining out would be an entirely different experience. Adults would be pitching fits and fighting over the menu! Sadly, there are known cases of human isolation that prove the importance social
