Lit Circle Essay In the United States alone, over two-thirds of of children have some form of trauma. (Lawrenz). Have you ever wondered why adults with childhood trauma find it so hard to allow themselves to trust? The issue of childhood trauma has been around for a while now, and it takes an effect on daily lives of people who have survives through it. In the book Nimona readers learn about how the main characters past trauma has caused her have trust issues, and how the problem effects children in our modern society.
Firstly, Nimona, the main character in the story, can be seen through the illustrations as a victim of trauma her parents and village caused her. Because of this, she became very self-isolated and untrusting towards others.
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However, children subjugated to their parents or others abuse and neglect is happening more often is our society than others may think. In fact, 1 in 7 children have experienced abuse and neglect just this year alone. (“Understanding Child Trauma - What is Childhood Trauma?”). These children have been thrown away when seeking comfort and support from those who they need it the most from. They then grow up struggling to trust and build up relationships of their own, for the fear of rejection and the childhood trauma happening again. “Consequently, as adults we are unable to trust those around us because, historically, those who were the closest to us did not meet our needs when we needed it most. We dampen our emotions and reactions so that we will be acceptable to people who cannot accept us.” (Cikanavicius) The fear of abandonment was so greatly prominent in these young childhoods that it's become rooted in their thinking, causing many to change and make sure that it never happens to them again. During our childhood, our brains are still growing, and it's when we learn who we can trust or not. When this bond gets broken and broken over again, it leads to the child growing up into adulthood never experiencing that safety and not wanting to put their trust out on a line, in case it gets broken again. It is an ongoing struggle that many people have to face and go though life without having a shoulder to lean on, and no support network to rely on. When faced with a rejection and pain that great, it's only nature to never want to feel that way again, many never place their trust in anyone again to create a preventative against that feeling. Trust is a very important and grounding parts of many relationships, whether platonic or romantic. When one person is unable to trust because of the childhood abuse they endured, it can drive a wedge into many relationships, and making the survivor feel even more