Reflective Essay: How Memory Affects Behavior

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When I was only a couple of months old my mom and I were stuck in an airport due to delayed flights. The only luggage we had was my diaper bag and a backpack full of baby toys. I was miserable and cranky the whole entire time which didn’t make my mom feel better. At the time I had no idea what was going on but now that will be stamped in my memories forever. Memories are a key aspect in life because they affect our behavior, help us recall events that have happened in life, and last help us learn. Furthermore memories are the events we have experienced in life and due to these experiences they take a toll on a person’s behavior. We may perceive a person has negative or pessimistic but without knowing them we can not assume their personality. …show more content…

Memories allow us to have past knowledge so that we can better understand and relate to people. The New York Times article states “...Kate McLean, a psychologist at the University of Toronto in Mississauga. “This meaning-making capability — to talk about growth, to explain what something says about who I am — develops across adolescence.” (Benedict Carey). This backs up the point that through memories a person starts to more about their inner self. Remembering embarrassing moments can in some ways teach you how to grow up so you never act that way again. Along with learning about yourself you learn about other people. Also in the poem Memory As A Hearing Aid the poem talks about a guy who grew up and slowly his hearing deteriorated. He opened with “Somewhere, someone is asking a question, and I stand squinting at the classroom with one hand cupped behind my ear, trying to figure out where that voice is coming from.” (Tony Hoagland). This allows us to feel as if we are him because everyone has experienced a time in class where they were so far back in the room the can not hear what is going on. Hoagland uses this to describe what his life is like because he is deaf. Although we may not be deaf ourself we can use a memory of a time from when we could not hear very well to better understand how he