During the Chinese Cultural Revolution, my grandpa was punished by the Red Guard in public because he had a higher quality of life than average people did. Despite the weighty burden on his mind, he always maintained a positive spirit and staunch manners in front of my family and me. This made a significant impact on my life. All through middle school, my grandpa would appear outside my school gate at noon with my favorite lunch. Rain or shine, he never missed a day even though there was such a long distance (about one hour’s drive) from his home to my school. And every night after dinner time, he would call me to make sure that I had eaten dinner. However, I took his actions for granted and did not cherish the love from him. Arguments,