Personal Narrative: My Identity And Stereotypes

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I have all been in life situations, a first date, team tryouts,a job interview or first day of school where we feel obligated to make a “good impression”. I try to present a positive image of myself in way that otters will form a positive judgement about me. This paradox is not only a critical aspect of my life but a key factor of my social development. It is a science and an art that provides a framework, addressing all the element clothing, grooming practices, body language and etiquette and vocal communication. I wake up everyday and always make sure that I brush my teeth, put on deodorant and do my hair. I always make sure that my image is presentable to society. Another aspect that I try to maintain is my vocal and non-vocal communication. …show more content…

Another way I like to represent my self is through my athletic appearance. I wear clothes that are “girly” sometimes, but what I have learned through sociology is that I can not hide my identity or my culture. My culture through sports is one thing I cannot no matter how much I try. I wear jewelry that represent the sports I play. Some people can tell you play sports by your body shoe and muscle mass but majority cannot. So to tell people that I play a sport I usually wear a bracket that has the sports I play along with my jersey number. Through this impression I like to show my love for the sport along with the fact that I like to stay in …show more content…

My hair texture is that of a native american and an African american. I wear my hair in its natural state on a rail basis because it is easier to tame as well as I refuse to straighten it all the to conform societal “norms”. I believe that chemicals are bad for your hair, it can damage your scalp or even make your hair fall out. Women today get perms and textures to chemically alter their hair to represent those of the Caucasian race. I wear my hair in different ethic styles to portray my roots and origins. Straight string bean hair does not represent my culture therefore I may only straighten my hair twice a year. I want people to know who I am based off of my impression. We do things because we want to fit but I refuse to let my heritage go to impress someone