Furthermore, Seidman argues that “sexuality is socially constructed” by explaining that humans are not born sexual, but that sexuality is instead learned throughout the course of their lives. He explains that sexuality originated from Christians when they were confessing their sexual desires to scientists. These scientist then collected this data and created it into a social regulation known as human sexuality. It then became a script to teach us how to act, and designate what is appropriate for our sexual behaviors. For example, in kindergarten, it was okay for me to hold a girl’s hand, but holding a boy’s hand was not okay. But as I grow older, it had the reverse effect. If I were to hold a girl’s hand today, I would be labeled as a “lesbian”